kantor1003
Prolific Member
This struck a striking resonance with me. The more uncertain I am regarding someone, the friendlier I am. If someone dislike me I have found myself, in instances where I know the person is somewhat intelligent and not potentially posing a physical threat, asking them for the reasons why. It is interesting how I can talk about it like I and my advisory where friends talking about any other subject taking our fancy.
I don't particularly mind people disliking me as it is a rare occurrence, and in instances where it has happened I usually know, or can guess the reasons why. I haven't yet encountered a reason (perhaps with one or two exceptions) which I felt had any merit, wasn't misguided, or wasn't founded on a limited understanding on my behavior. If it has merit, I'll accept it, sometimes accompanied by feeling down, which will work as a catalyst for further self-analysis.
