Deep, “intellectual” conversations

[Hadoblado]

This is the worst thread I've ever read.

 

[Polaris]

 

[Deleted member 1424]

Oh wow. I had forgotten how much I hate Switchfoot. Seriously, they make Coldplay sound interesting. Try Christian death metal instead; much more entertaining.

 

[Pizzabeak]

There really isn't a point talking to Serac Minuend. He isn't interested in equal relationships of any kind. He wants to operate from a point of power and with dubious ethics. The 'othering' he compulsively engages in is to facilitate this.

I'm not making accusations, but given his mentality would you be surprised if he has at some point raped or committed crimes against the people he denigrates? Of course not. He's at a significantly higher risk of these behaviors than the average person, and this is obvious from simple self-disclosure. He's constructed his worldview to support distinctly anti-social premises. So really... What's point is there in engaging directly with people like him as if they are capable of operating in a prosocial or rational way? Their worldview is inherently self-serving at the expense of others.

Now I'm sure you're pissed Serac, but I'm sure you'll forgive me for honestly informing you about the image that you present to people; as someone who will absolutely do terrible things given the opportunity and if they think they can get away with it. Now go find some like-minded fools and go fuel your entitled rage boners together. Cheers!

You're a hippy and a comy at the same time, did you know that? Listen to this:


Now I'm sure you are pissed, but I'm sure you'll forgive me for honestly informing you about the image that you present to the people. I'm sure you would do terrible things given the chance, and that's really too bad because it shows you are bitter and unhappy.

Now, please listen to the lyrics in this song:

Why are you quoting Adaire every time you’re here posting? I didn’t know you had that much of a connection from what I’ve read.

 

[kora]

I think men's deepest desire is to be with their mothers.

 

[redbaron]

Men's deepest desire is to be their mother.

 

[kora]

Omg I just scrolled up and saw @Polaris said the same thing as me earlier on. Wow must really be true.

 

[Pizzabeak]

I think men's deepest desire is to be with their mothers.

Mine is to be with a sexy French chick, everyday, but they’re all taken.

 

[kora]

I think men's deepest desire is to be with their mothers.

Mine is to be with a sexy French chick, everyday, but they’re all taken.

Wow I didn't know your mum was a sexy french chick

 

[Pizzabeak]

I think men's deepest desire is to be with their mothers.

Mine is to be with a sexy French chick, everyday, but they’re all taken.

Wow I didn't know your mum was a sexy french chick

The mother, the Gaia spirit, of my proverbial unborn offspring maybe.

 

[Cognisant]

Last Friday I went to a... bar?
Not an enclosed bar more like an alfresco beer garden sort of affair.

Anyway so I'm there with with a mate of mine and some guys he knows and I'm not looking to meet anyone but the alfresco beer garden is hosting a meet'n'greet for Koreans looking to learn English. My mate's looking to score but I'm just there for moral support so I get a beer order some food and sit down.

He does the same and sits across from me, I think he's copying me because I seem confident, like I know what I'm doing, unlike the other guys wandering around hitting on everything that might have a vagina. (one can never be entirely certain with Asians)

I'm absolutely confident that I've had a long day, I'm hungry and I need a beer.

All around us people are doing some sort of table swapping speed dating nonsense, it's not explicitly for dating but there's that tension in the air like documentary footage of a school of fish under attack, a feeding frenzy. My steak sandwich & chips arrives and I've just started to tuck in when in perfect sync two girls sidle up to us one on either side of the table, throwing my base desires in conflict.

Food.
Pretty girl?
Pretty girl!
Food!
Pretty girl~
Foood!
Pretty. Girl.

While talking to her I try to sneak in subtle bites here and there, the napkin never quite leaving my hand, I do the gentlemanly thing and offer to share with her but she's not hungry so now I can't eat because some instinctual switch has been flipped which means my meal is now "our" meal and I can't eat if she doesn't.

In then end I got her number and left with my not-even-half-eaten meal going cold on the table, really aside from making pleasant small talk and lots of eye contact I didn't do anything and that's usually how it goes. This whole James Bond inspired notion of the guy being the one to initiate things really has nothing to do with reality, in reality women get approached all the time and if they get an eye for someone they'll approach him and all he has to do is not fuck it up.

Or maybe you can do it that way, I dunno, it's never worked for me.

 

[Pizzabeak]

There are some differences these days because feminism and women’s civil rights movements. James Bond as a super soldier is still a real idea although I think it’s more of a security issue. If it’s based on logic then the female choice is an ego based, selfish-centric mentality. That is artificial selection with nothing based in reality. My destiny said that in past lives my reincarnation was the sex King/prince and I made love to all women of my choice, bringing them into my chambers for it on those occasions. In this reality it’s different because it’s a culmination of all that had been into archetypes. Those other actions are being played out in other dimensions. The only people I meet are those I have an ancient connection with in particular, or those who still have a grudge, looking to remember what it’s like experiencing revenge.

 

[Puffy]

You're a gibbering moron who can only express himself by parroting the videos and views of others as he is incapable of original thought or participating in an intelligible conversation.

Why did you change tenses? Do you really think that low of me?

No I don't. That particular post just irked me, as several others in this thread have, and I was highlighting what it's like to be on the receiving end of it by way of comparison.

 

[Ex-User (14663)]

Last Friday I went to a... bar?
Not an enclosed bar more like an alfresco beer garden sort of affair.

Anyway so I'm there with with a mate of mine and some guys he knows and I'm not looking to meet anyone but the alfresco beer garden is hosting a meet'n'greet for Koreans looking to learn English. My mate's looking to score but I'm just there for moral support so I get a beer order some food and sit down.

He does the same and sits across from me, I think he's copying me because I seem confident, like I know what I'm doing, unlike the other guys wandering around hitting on everything that might have a vagina. (one can never be entirely certain with Asians)

I'm absolutely confident that I've had a long day, I'm hungry and I need a beer.

All around us people are doing some sort of table swapping speed dating nonsense, it's not explicitly for dating but there's that tension in the air like documentary footage of a school of fish under attack, a feeding frenzy. My steak sandwich & chips arrives and I've just started to tuck in when in perfect sync two girls sidle up to us one on either side of the table, throwing my base desires in conflict.

Food.
Pretty girl?
Pretty girl!
Food!
Pretty girl~
Foood!
Pretty. Girl.

While talking to her I try to sneak in subtle bites here and there, the napkin never quite leaving my hand, I do the gentlemanly thing and offer to share with her but she's not hungry so now I can't eat because some instinctual switch has been flipped which means my meal is now "our" meal and I can't eat if she doesn't.

In then end I got her number and left with my not-even-half-eaten meal going cold on the table, really aside from making pleasant small talk and lots of eye contact I didn't do anything and that's usually how it goes. This whole James Bond inspired notion of the guy being the one to initiate things really has nothing to do with reality, in reality women get approached all the time and if they get an eye for someone they'll approach him and all he has to do is not fuck it up.

Or maybe you can do it that way, I dunno, it's never worked for me.

man this is the state of things - dudes get approached by a girl once in a blue moon and now they figure they got game and finding women is all about just passively hanging around bars.

Sorry to shit on a feel-good post though.

 

[Ex-User (14663)]

There are some ballsy girls out there who go for what they want. That's like 5% of women at most though.

 

[Cognisant]

Sure thing Machiavelli.

 

[QuickTwist]

Oh wow. I had forgotten how much I hate Switchfoot. Seriously, they make Coldplay sound interesting. Try Christian death metal instead; much more entertaining.

Fair enough. This was just on.

 

[sushi]

science
philosophy
technology
finance and economics
books

 

[Volstar]

Last Friday I went to a... bar?
Not an enclosed bar more like an alfresco beer garden sort of affair.

Anyway so I'm there with with a mate of mine and some guys he knows and I'm not looking to meet anyone but the alfresco beer garden is hosting a meet'n'greet for Koreans looking to learn English. My mate's looking to score but I'm just there for moral support so I get a beer order some food and sit down.

He does the same and sits across from me, I think he's copying me because I seem confident, like I know what I'm doing, unlike the other guys wandering around hitting on everything that might have a vagina. (one can never be entirely certain with Asians)

I'm absolutely confident that I've had a long day, I'm hungry and I need a beer.

All around us people are doing some sort of table swapping speed dating nonsense, it's not explicitly for dating but there's that tension in the air like documentary footage of a school of fish under attack, a feeding frenzy. My steak sandwich & chips arrives and I've just started to tuck in when in perfect sync two girls sidle up to us one on either side of the table, throwing my base desires in conflict.

Food.
Pretty girl?
Pretty girl!
Food!
Pretty girl~
Foood!
Pretty. Girl.

While talking to her I try to sneak in subtle bites here and there, the napkin never quite leaving my hand, I do the gentlemanly thing and offer to share with her but she's not hungry so now I can't eat because some instinctual switch has been flipped which means my meal is now "our" meal and I can't eat if she doesn't.

In then end I got her number and left with my not-even-half-eaten meal going cold on the table, really aside from making pleasant small talk and lots of eye contact I didn't do anything and that's usually how it goes. This whole James Bond inspired notion of the guy being the one to initiate things really has nothing to do with reality, in reality women get approached all the time and if they get an eye for someone they'll approach him and all he has to do is not fuck it up.

Or maybe you can do it that way, I dunno, it's never worked for me.

it's true that ultimately it is the girl who decides but it's very weird to think you have to be a pole taking root there with no purpose. waitin. .soon. what is clear to me is that this is not a sign of self confidence or the lack of it. in fact reminds me of a friend who i used to go out for beers and he used to stand there. he would ask me to start the conversations. he wouldn't ask me to do it actually, he would let me cuz he saw it was good, it was part of his "self confident masterplan", and then he would do the "open minded" talk. stuff like where r u from, why r u here, what did u study, do u know any languages, do u know this word actually means dick in my native tongue? stuff like that. and he did manage to go on a date with a few girls. but if you wanna get the prettiest ones your self confidence plan won't be enough.

turning off my ego now, i think both ways of doing it are effective if you find the right person for you and for her.
also i believe serac is right in that some girls really want or need or hope that someone tells them something. and i don't mean "hey pretty asian here's your katana".

i remember this kid (he was part of a group of people i knew because of student life reasons) who would go to girls in every house party and fill their heads with historical facts about the places these girls were born.
and at some point he met the girl i was dating so besides all the historical facts he mentioned to her he also asked her for a photography session cuz he needed a subject (ofc).
one night the guy started texting her and she told me about this and asked me to record a audio and send him through messenger so i sent some spontaneous comedy which resulted in him asking her if i had stolen her phone XD. we were reading his texts after sex.