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Character traits that are uncharacteristic of INTP.

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I think large groups tend to overwhelm our chameleon ability. Once the group gets too big our brain is pulling us in too many directions and decides to just shut the whole process down. I find when even one person is added to a group I can sometimes do that, finding myself unable to rekindle the feeling I had before.

Yeah. Specially when the new person is one of those persons that are all fake, and give off a real bad vibe. Besides, when there's so many people, I get more entertained by observing and analyzing their interactions...

on another note, anyone have the problem where while reading, you often times begin thinking about something else, while still reading, but not even paying attention. i do that all the time then i have to stop my train of thought and re-read the page.

DAMN IT TO HELL! That's the reason I have like 30 books right here by my bed, none of which I've come even close to half-way through! :mad:

And Re the defensive smiling. I can't. I just can't. But I do get the arrogant smirk when debating... which has really gotten me into trouble some times (Once, a soccer mom did an illegal turn in her huge van and made me crash into her. She wanted to rip my heart out while we were arguing: she thought that I was smiling because I had crashed her just for kicks! Crazy!)

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A thing I do when I'm bored or feeling playful: I stick my tongue out to random people :p. And I sometimes use it as a way to say hello to people that are very far away (very far away being like... 8 feet) so that I don't have to speak or move my arms or otherwise call attention to myself. My friends have learned to respond equally, but new acquaintances get all confused, and sometimes even think I'm rude...
 

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I have always had problems to get into a relationship. I think it is because I am too immature, but also too intellectual when I talk with other people, and people notice how things get to another level when I enter debate. I almost never show any emotions except laughing here and there. The thing I want in a relationship is of course kind of serious. I want to be with a girl that has strong emotions.Despite the fact that I hide my emotions doesn't mean I don't want to experience any.

I am a very lazy person. I don't like to do chores. I don't like to do keep my room clean, and it is hard to start a project. I think that comes from the absence of my parents. They gave me a lot of liberty. I was very impulsive when I was a kid and I had a talent for maths. Now, I still have that skill in maths, I like maths, and I still show interest for more advanced maths. I am 17 years old and I am attending CEGEP (Québec's college equivalent). I am doing calculus right now.. I don't feel like it's complicated or hard enough, so I will pursue this with hope to find any challenges or any competences that will make me solve a Millenium Prize. Lol. The thing is I will do business too. It will probably rob my time, so I will not be able to be focused in Maths. Anyways

I think a trait that is uncharacteristic of INTP for me is that I care about others, and care about the world. My elders have taught me that. In respect, and to show gratitude, I do my best to act with respect, even though I ain't really good at being a kind person. I am kind of "rude" in anything I do, naturally.

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I have thought about that for quite a few minutes, not to say hours.
I might be INTP, but a well balanced INTP (60%T, 40%F). It might explain why I care about the world despite the fact that I don't understand other people's needs as well as others do.
 

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calling me stupid or saying that i'm an idiot doesn't bother me, its when someone really challenges my intelligence that i can get angry.

Ye this irritates me as it feels as if they are mocking my brain in an indirect sort of way.
I don't mind if someone is straight up in any case, but it really grinds my gears when people come at me sideways if you catch my drift.
That reading the same page twice thing gets me everytime. Even though I'm reading the words I'm thinking of something else my mind drifts very easily its annyoing that I can't concentrate on one thing two long.

I think large groups tend to overwhelm our chameleon ability. Once the group gets too big our brain is pulling us in too many directions and decides to just shut the whole process down. I find when even one person is added to a group I can sometimes do that, finding myself unable to rekindle the feeling I had before.

Ye this happens to me all the time. I've felt like this since day dot. Almost a sinking feeling like someone has burst your bubble. I never used to worry as I though everyone in the group prior to the new arrival felt like I did. As the new arrival has muscled in and spoiled the mood people will naturally outkast that person unless they add something new and interesting. (Unlikely though as I would probably ignore that person unless they asked what we were talking about before he got there).

I smile alot defensiveley, Its rare that I have a gut laugh or a genuine smile towards something.
 

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Hmmm...I tend to brush off people being nice to me...or...romantic.
I have a hard time getting it...I have a hard time even recognizing if I am IN a relationship?
I would love to be one of those warmer Moms...not ask 15 thousand questions ...about HOW exactly you got your head stuck in that thing...why you put your head in it...what was your goal, or were you just wanting to see what would happen. Why are you crying?...we'll probably get you out...honey.

It is true I don't smile much and so what?

I am trying lately to remember to ask others who ask how I am doing...how they are doing too...and to say thank you. I am dating an ENFP...what freak of unnatural occurrence created that situation?...not sure...but he is always reminding me to say "Thank you"

I write a lot, but talk very little. I would like to ...talk more.
But not to everyone....just some people.

I suspect my youngest is also an INTP...she is quite happy as of now not interacting too much...except for with her friend named Starlight...I swear she befriended her for the name...she is cool with freezing shampoo to see what will happen and spacing out.

I would like to not feel the need to go on endlessly when someone asks an interesting question.
 

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I have a few things about myself that are not characteristic of INTPs.

I smile a lot. I learned it as a tool. People tend to react well to just about anything if you do it with a hardy smile.

I have a very bad temper. It rarely comes out, but when it does it is an intense rage of emotion that is almost beyond my control.

I am not good with advanced math. I imagine I could learn it with relative ease, but math is not something which has ever caught my interest.
 

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I'm a girl (hardly any INTP girls, and the "lazy genius" stereotype doesn't fit for girls regardless)

I'm a girl who fits the "lazy genius" stereotype pretty well. I don't put any effort into my scholastic efforts, but still manage to get good marks by remembering what my teachers say.

In addition, I don't really smile -- for a while my parents thought I was depressed. I also don't really laugh. People first take it as ignorance, then I explain to them that I got the joke, it just wasn't funny. Then they realise that I am just insensitive.
I don't know if this is classic INTP or not, but I don't enjoy physical contact at all. Hand shaking is OK, but any form of intimate touch makes me extremely uncomfortable.

SW
 

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1.) I love hugging and wrestling with my little brother. He's just so CUTE!
2.) When I'm aware of feelings, I don't enjoy hurting others or seeing others being hurt in the slightest.
3.) Memorization is easy for me.
4.) When my anger comes, I'm like Achilles: full of seething rage.
5.) I love happy, thoughtful stories and art wherein people don't get hurt too much-- especially just for our entertainment.

-Duxwing
 

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Stereotypes are made by xSxJs, i dont think too much into them. Whenever i try to describe something, it changes with every new idea
 

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Contrary to popular beliefs about INTPs, I don't like math, I prefer art (supposedly an F dominated field, but that really depends on whether the art you make is more focused on feelings or ideas or a mixture of the two.), I'm a girl (hardly any INTP girls, and the "lazy genius" stereotype doesn't fit for girls regardless), and I'm not emotionally stone cold, though I tend to rationalize myself out of the feelings that make less sense. The feelings are there, I'm just inarticulate, except in writing.

And I have the problem of having a really sad neutral face.

The same goes for me. Although I am rather lazy...I don't have to put effort into school in order to do well.
I'm also very good at sports without actually trying.
 

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1.) I love hugging and wrestling with my little brother. He's just so CUTE!
2.) When I'm aware of feelings, I don't enjoy hurting others or seeing others being hurt in the slightest.
3.) Memorization is easy for me.
4.) When my anger comes, I'm like Achilles: full of seething rage.
5.) I love happy, thoughtful stories and art wherein people don't get hurt too much-- especially just for our entertainment.

-Duxwing
Aside from number 1, I agree with you. How often do you get angry?

SW
 

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I smile and laugh out loud a lot with friends. Probably because they are my friends and because I'm Filipino.

I'm also fond of drawing stuff.
 

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I'm a girl who fits the "lazy genius" stereotype pretty well. I don't put any effort into my scholastic efforts, but still manage to get good marks by remembering what my teachers say.
SW

Welcome to the party. I'd wager a fair bit that my laziness generates from an assortment of avenues, namely, as you mentioned, an ease in memorization of relevant information and perhaps, overstimulation of the brain, attributing to little, if any, restful sleep.

In other news, I've found INTPs to be highly emotional, and while some sources recognize this (though sparing much detail), others err on the side of the "stolid, unarosed, cold" INTP. Yes, yes, I often sell this image well (and was labeled Schizoid in my younger years), but vulnerability and discomfort are the real devils. Displaying emotion is not the most natural thing for our type, and in a world where that is the norm for many of our fellows, the result can be terribly distasteful, further inhibiting any desire to contribute, just as us spewing out our latest time theory conspectus can make the heads of the more sensing types implode. For most of my life, I assumed rationalization could keep the emotions at bay, what I saw as a leg-up on all of those feeling wonks, an ataraxia of sorts. But they stayed alive and well. And my, my, my, weren't they primitive and enigmatic and opposed to every cogent artillery I could direct their way.

The day I stumbled upon my sine qua non, my dearest and nearest best friend was the day I learned that emotions can be an asset when properly acknowledged/defused/recognized rather than tethered to a pipe in the basement of some Romanian hostel (or other places on the list of least desirable to visit). She and I, we struggled with opposing weaknesses, and I suppose through mutual rapport and complementary perspectives, a gradual strengthening manifested within us both. This is not to say I've taken up the INFP shield (or tissue), but I've learned to put my emotions to good use in conjunction with my preset strengths (e.g. crying without rationale and allowing emotions to roll out as they will is an immensely helpful memory to store for the time when someone you care about does so, and the immediate action is usually to fix or leave, but rather you can sit there, and not understand their reaction, but understand what that feels like. Usually, a small bit of time spent empathizing opens the receptive doors to some good ol' rational advice. Mothers love it).

In the end, I wouldn't necessarily call feeling an unusual character trait of INTPS, more or less your uncle no one ever mentions because when his mother had an affair with her brother-in-law, and the hooked nose and overly zealous temperament brought the truth to light, your uncle, being at the tender age of 45, drank a bottle of Wild Turkey and wound up in a cell after chasing children around a campsite screaming, "I am the Sandman!" Or, as my grandmother when brought up, "None of your damn business."

So, here are a few personal ones of mine they may be considered unorthodox for an INTP:
-I become extremely bombastic while watching hockey, a bone fide hellion.
-There are a handful of people that do not ever drain me. Though they also can sit in a room for an entire day without talking or eating in an attempt to develop some intellectual or creative pursuit.
-I train MMA and readily display this whenever men are heinously disrespectful towards women in bars.
-I've heard my default facial expression is also a smile, so the above action is usually startling.
 
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  • Traditional
  • No need for knowledge and competence
  • No long-term perspective
  • Not absorbed in analysis
  • Don't have precise and accurate language
  • Don't explore concepts and hypothesis
  • Colorful language
  • Present-oriented
  • Preference for directing over informing
 

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I smile all the time. A lot of times when I'm driving even, I imagine people think I'm crazy but that's because I'm always reminiscing back to funny events or good times in my life without a care for everyday monotony.
I'm terrible with math and don't really have any interest in it. Matter of fact, I tend to avoid it when possible. As for feelings, I'm very terrible at controlling my tempers and feelings but I do love discussing with others my emotions, thoughts, etc...
 
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