Bullying- EJ vs. IP

[GYX_Kid]

if an IP gets his ego wounded, he will probably go and try to find the individual who did it, to fight back against (and maybe make sure they can't escalate further, or dare them to if it's worth it)

When ego woundage inevitably happens to an EJ, which happens frequently enough in a warlike lifestyle, he will probably prefer to let it out on someone who he thinks won't hurt him back, than bother fighting another shark.


To generalize, extroverted bullies would be more into the feeling of domination and introverted ones the feeling of sadism. Especially adding J vs P.
Though N would want to "win" and S simply want to "kill".
The most cliche example would be an ENTJ's style of narcissistic resentment/hatred versus an ISTP's one.


If an INT happened to get himself into one of these messes, he might just stand there and analyze, and not really care about anything. Then afterwards be like "hey wait a minute" (P would act less than J).
Since perhaps the INT's "stance" (if any) is the soul-disconnected universalist who has no stance vis-a-vis any standing character, it might be a good option to jump into one of these characters to play.
He will probably end up in the ISTP's dilemma, and if played the part appropriately in the ISTP's shoes, win by "reverse victim sadism" though in the end not really care about it in the same way... since he knows all of this is fucking gay, and doesn't live on earth to the same degree anyway


Oh and an ESTJ is the original butthurt-creation god, the creator of all evil both ways.

 

[xbox]

I agree. Haha this reminds me of my family dynamics. I was/am the recipient of all ExxJ rage channeling.

 

[boondockbabe]

I dont put up with that anymore. Last time somebody pulled shit with me I came unglued. I took shit for too long to put up with any more. I dont think being bullied is somthing we have to put up with under any circumstances. You just have to have enough and then stand up.

 

[GYX_Kid]

yeah. but you have to be -somewhat- aware of your enemy. taking a joke is one thing, then when it gets too far you don't take anymore.

you could go sudden borderline personality against an NPD who cares enough about their own skin. they'd get assault charges on you for smashing his skull against the doorknob, but if it's worth it it's worth it...all depends on the circumstance.

having a cold and rational head with boundaries seems to be the best and safest route in general, but i agree that there is a time and place for that^

 

[boondockbabe]

I'm not really good at keeping a cool head in those situations. But I have been in them enough I can see them coming. So I am prepared when they get to me.

 

[Meer]

I was never really bullied much, at all. My mask is too scary or intriguing, or something. I don't know.

When I was mugged a few months ago, though, I wanted to kill the dudes, or anyone who would do the same thing to me.