sagewolf
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(Rant warning.) We were given a list of positive and negative traits in French class the other day to describe ourselves. What I'm linking to this post is the fact that 'casanièr(e)' was described as a bad one.
A "casanièr(e)" is someone who would rather stay at home than be out enjoying social interaction with others.
That is apparently a bad thing in this world. Why? Because most people like socialisation. So do I, in moderation. Just because I don't like it all the time, though, I'm apparently defective. Well, I am, but I'm thinking of a different interpretation of the word 'defect' (if not an entirely accurate one).
Another example in my school is sport: it's a very sporty school, so everyone has to congratulate the teams when they win, and they're allowed to be out for entire days, which holds back the rest of the class while they play, but this is allowed because this is apparently so important. What's more, my peers feel obliged to guide me to sport in the manner of evangelists, away from the temptations of books, writing or art. That really made me mad, and I eventually told them I didn't enjoy chasing a ball around a field in the manner of a dog. (Nothing against dogs.
) They left me alone after that.
I'm sick of hearing that certain traits are desirable just because the majority possesses them. And I'd like to know what everyone else here thinks of this: does majority rule? Or does diversity deserve to be acknowledged?
A "casanièr(e)" is someone who would rather stay at home than be out enjoying social interaction with others.
That is apparently a bad thing in this world. Why? Because most people like socialisation. So do I, in moderation. Just because I don't like it all the time, though, I'm apparently defective. Well, I am, but I'm thinking of a different interpretation of the word 'defect' (if not an entirely accurate one).
Another example in my school is sport: it's a very sporty school, so everyone has to congratulate the teams when they win, and they're allowed to be out for entire days, which holds back the rest of the class while they play, but this is allowed because this is apparently so important. What's more, my peers feel obliged to guide me to sport in the manner of evangelists, away from the temptations of books, writing or art. That really made me mad, and I eventually told them I didn't enjoy chasing a ball around a field in the manner of a dog. (Nothing against dogs.

I'm sick of hearing that certain traits are desirable just because the majority possesses them. And I'd like to know what everyone else here thinks of this: does majority rule? Or does diversity deserve to be acknowledged?