Social Abstraction
I found this on Google:
It says that context is key to autism. Context is formed by higher-order associations in comparison to first-order associations.
That is, an association of associations.
"Abstractions"
As people develop we gain social abstractions. Understanding people requires knowing their intentions, we anticipate other's needs / wants and what they will do based on them.
Therefore autism is about a way of understanding people only at a concrete level. Theory in "theory of mind" means a comprehensive related idea of what people do. What is a mind, what does it do, how is it motivated, and what personally is this specific person thinking? In effect what is cognition in other minds?
If you can write stories about people you need to do more than understand people in the normal sense. You need to predict what a person will do in any situation depending on who they are. This is cognitive empathy. Emotional empathy is a little different in that a person "understands" but does not know what a person will do. They are not at the level of abstraction we associate with a theory of mind.
Usually, we get intuitions about who people are. If we can trust them. A story is different because you have to say what others are doing and why. This is a top-level view and with language. Men manipulate others in a different way than women manipulate. This shows that emotions get you what you want whereas logic gets you a different result. Pathos, ethos, logos.
Men are autistic because they don't abstract in the ways women do. The exception of why women would have this same problem as men is, in that instead of giving reasons for why people do what they do using emotions they would use logic. First-order reasons, this = that.
Language is abstract so a story becomes important to defining autism.
Language is emotional, not logical.
So an exception of autism in men is that they can tell stories in pathos.
Until a person understands persons they have no theory of mind story-wise.
Then the context becomes apparent.
Social relationships.
Person X said person A believes this or that things about what person B believes about person C. (Associations of associations of associations)
Autism is a deficiency in understanding society as a whole.
What begins as a lack of understanding of individuals first.