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So, MBTI is pretty popular among the crowd today right?
You have these websites saying INTP/INTJ/INFP/INFJ types are really rare.
Yet, when it comes to results, most people identify as one of the four.
Why is that?
I'd wager my guess on "people want to feel different from everyone else"
But not too different that they don't have a sense of belongingness to anything.
What they want essentially, is a label to tell them who they are.
I was one of those guys in the past.
I encountered the MBTI/Enneagram/Jungian stuff when I was 13/14.
And then identified myself as an INTP/5w4 etc.
But right now, 12/13 years on, it amazes me that I gave a shit.
Clearly the fact that I am writing here means I still give a shit right? Maybe.
Things are different now. I'm working. And while I'm one of the privileged few who get to say that work is fun and interesting, sure, it also means you can't just latch onto an identity and expect people to give you attention.
Most people really drawn to typology and all this stuff instead of treating it as a passing interest probably see themselves as a bit jaded with life maybe. Like they can't quite find themselves and are desperate for meaning.
I was like that too. Like many others here, I never had to put in effort in school. At every juncture I would hear those older than me talk about how the next phase would be a lot harder but I never felt it. I did mostly STEM stuff (math, CS, engineering) stuff in university and never felt challenged by the material. But at the same time I was so jaded with everything I didn't quite have the ambition to try to top the school and really push my limits. It wasn't interesting to me want to be "successful", whatever that means. But I was kidding myself. It did. I just thought trying to be successful was beneath me and for losers.
I was wrong. At work I got challenged. I'm in a startup environment whereby you get more thrown at you if you can do more. There is almost no bureaucracy, no pace to follow. You go at your own pace. It's really nice.
And for the first time in my time, I am actually achieving conventional success and it feels really good. And then I think back to the days I saw myself as being different from others and sought meaning in that perspective. No, I'm not really all that different. Maybe a little smarter, sure, and less agreeable in general. But other than that, pretty normal. I want people to like me, to have material success, to find a girlfriend, to maybe even have kids.
And I don't feel like it's all meaningless either. Nowadays it's kinda the opposite, i can't fine enough time to do all the things I want to do. What a change eh.
So yeah, end rant. Typology is mostly bull. Most people (there are exceptions of course) want the same thing they were evolved to want. Maybe some are a little smarter, a little more curious, a little more stubborn, that's it. Or the other way around.
You have these websites saying INTP/INTJ/INFP/INFJ types are really rare.
Yet, when it comes to results, most people identify as one of the four.
Why is that?
I'd wager my guess on "people want to feel different from everyone else"
But not too different that they don't have a sense of belongingness to anything.
What they want essentially, is a label to tell them who they are.
I was one of those guys in the past.
I encountered the MBTI/Enneagram/Jungian stuff when I was 13/14.
And then identified myself as an INTP/5w4 etc.
But right now, 12/13 years on, it amazes me that I gave a shit.
Clearly the fact that I am writing here means I still give a shit right? Maybe.
Things are different now. I'm working. And while I'm one of the privileged few who get to say that work is fun and interesting, sure, it also means you can't just latch onto an identity and expect people to give you attention.
Most people really drawn to typology and all this stuff instead of treating it as a passing interest probably see themselves as a bit jaded with life maybe. Like they can't quite find themselves and are desperate for meaning.
I was like that too. Like many others here, I never had to put in effort in school. At every juncture I would hear those older than me talk about how the next phase would be a lot harder but I never felt it. I did mostly STEM stuff (math, CS, engineering) stuff in university and never felt challenged by the material. But at the same time I was so jaded with everything I didn't quite have the ambition to try to top the school and really push my limits. It wasn't interesting to me want to be "successful", whatever that means. But I was kidding myself. It did. I just thought trying to be successful was beneath me and for losers.
I was wrong. At work I got challenged. I'm in a startup environment whereby you get more thrown at you if you can do more. There is almost no bureaucracy, no pace to follow. You go at your own pace. It's really nice.
And for the first time in my time, I am actually achieving conventional success and it feels really good. And then I think back to the days I saw myself as being different from others and sought meaning in that perspective. No, I'm not really all that different. Maybe a little smarter, sure, and less agreeable in general. But other than that, pretty normal. I want people to like me, to have material success, to find a girlfriend, to maybe even have kids.
And I don't feel like it's all meaningless either. Nowadays it's kinda the opposite, i can't fine enough time to do all the things I want to do. What a change eh.
So yeah, end rant. Typology is mostly bull. Most people (there are exceptions of course) want the same thing they were evolved to want. Maybe some are a little smarter, a little more curious, a little more stubborn, that's it. Or the other way around.