I admit some crabbiness got through back there, but I wholeheartedly meant no ill will towards any particular member. What I quoted are things I would've even said a few years ago myself, but I accepted that don't particularly enjoy some of the types of socialization that goes on here, even if I were enthusiastically approached/included.
I just think the natural trend of a forum is to engage in excess personal dialogues, and didn't like that people used it hypocritically against Sinny. What else would you do when new membership is stagnant, and so are the main topics? I understand not preferring talk about sex, drugs, people etc -- what you might assume are sensor things, but when it comes down to it, you're observing people who are discussing their interests. So Sinny finally found someone here to talk about things she was interested in, and got backlash for it. Well you don't see anyone lashing out at others' self-indulgent dialogues(well besides myself

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