it's interesting hearing your thoughts on INTJs...we are in a similar position in that my best friend is also INTJ, and while I would still call them 'my best friend' (a title not bestowed lightly), I have pondered around similar criticisms you made in the post regarding INTJs&INTPs. I think, though, instead of a type war, the INTP and INTJ are in excellent positions to help each other, provided they get along personally at first. Since being friends with my INTJ friend, I have stolen a bit of that "robot" exterior--am more efficient, don't get caught in loops of thought as much--and the "human" heart--have stopped externalizing all my emotional responses. My friend has gained enough ability to see the world as it really is (Ti), and to express his emotions as emotions (Fe), instead of cloaking them in pompous judgement rhetoric, that he no longer gets along with other INTJs all that well, especially the immature ones. I was wondering if this common, if you had a similar experience?