P-erceivers / J-udgers and first part / second part of Life

[DIALECTIC]

If J's are naturally skilled / gifted to succeed in the first part of life with getting shit done, aren't P's best skilled /gifted for life's second part as we know how to let go and letting others do shit (for us), and basically exploiting the cracks of the same system who fucked us over in our early years ?
Because by the time we reach our late 30s we know all the cracks in the system but also in the system's very devotees who just as much fucked us over in the past !

I do think P's who fully live up to their potential in the 2nd part of life live a lot happier and healthier lifes than stresshead J's who didnt slow the fuck down and still seek to control others (as they are unable to control themselves) !


Your views ?

 

[Cherry Cola]

What about the J's who successfully control others in their 2nd part of life and make them do their shit for them?

 

[DIALECTIC]

What about the J's who successfully control others in their 2nd part of life and make them do their shit for them?

Well maybe they are J's who unknowingly / unconsciously went on the other side of the Force and turned P's and manage to control others indirectly then ! :-)
(The same way i had to adapt and behave reactively as a J for most of the 1st part of my life... And then finally came to my senses / very nature just when my mental / physical / financial health was deteriorating way too much to bear, saving myself a lot of problems !).

I found out the best way to control Js is in fact to let them believe they control me (as long as there is some logic in their behaviour). All one has to do is put up with the nasty remarks (meditation helps)... By not doing things, Js always end up doing them (for you), they just can't help it !