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The title of this thread is to bring clarity onto how the female intj experience emotions.
Often the portrait is that of an ice Queen but this is furthest from the truth of the matter. The female intj like the male intj has a relationship to intimacy that is hidden or shows up from a drop in guard. They're not going to be playful in the open where they have learned emotional expressiveness is rejected often.
In the open they highly focus on assessment of what is. So observation will come from the inside with introverted intuition that this or that reality exists. Extraverted thinking really just helps them build upon the intuition. The insight they must find out is true.
Fi in their psyche has a role akin to a weak small child. Valunerability that can go in two directions. A superiority or inferiority complex. The former is what most believe the intj is at heart. That's not the full truth. When an intj happens to be neutral or they happen to feel like a small child this elicits something different. A kind wise soul.
Female INTJ become those kind souls more often than males do. There distinction then comes at there being a feminine energy of both male and female of this type only the female has less anger in the inner child when presenting to others. Fi then can become internalized softer.
The softer gentler intj creates a new tone. Especially since the female intj has intuitive reading of self Fi knows and interacts with people better. With this a wisdom.
They can feel at the same time understanding objectively. There is no world domination plot with obsessive control. It's relaxed yet energized.
The Fi of the female intj in this form is well adjusted to activities of all sorts depending on the reason for the pursuit. To them there is a quiet voice inside guilds their direction telling them where to go.
As most intj never reach into Fi until much later in life we don't normally notice this quiet figure. All we see is the most brazen representation of a person seeking control.
In this we can infer that not all would understand them and their deep settled sense of self.
They are therefore last to be seen like a unicorn.
Often the portrait is that of an ice Queen but this is furthest from the truth of the matter. The female intj like the male intj has a relationship to intimacy that is hidden or shows up from a drop in guard. They're not going to be playful in the open where they have learned emotional expressiveness is rejected often.
In the open they highly focus on assessment of what is. So observation will come from the inside with introverted intuition that this or that reality exists. Extraverted thinking really just helps them build upon the intuition. The insight they must find out is true.
Fi in their psyche has a role akin to a weak small child. Valunerability that can go in two directions. A superiority or inferiority complex. The former is what most believe the intj is at heart. That's not the full truth. When an intj happens to be neutral or they happen to feel like a small child this elicits something different. A kind wise soul.
Female INTJ become those kind souls more often than males do. There distinction then comes at there being a feminine energy of both male and female of this type only the female has less anger in the inner child when presenting to others. Fi then can become internalized softer.
The softer gentler intj creates a new tone. Especially since the female intj has intuitive reading of self Fi knows and interacts with people better. With this a wisdom.
They can feel at the same time understanding objectively. There is no world domination plot with obsessive control. It's relaxed yet energized.
The Fi of the female intj in this form is well adjusted to activities of all sorts depending on the reason for the pursuit. To them there is a quiet voice inside guilds their direction telling them where to go.
As most intj never reach into Fi until much later in life we don't normally notice this quiet figure. All we see is the most brazen representation of a person seeking control.
In this we can infer that not all would understand them and their deep settled sense of self.
They are therefore last to be seen like a unicorn.