TheManBeyond
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i thought i was some isfp but then several people have told me too much things, infp, istp, isfj, entp, etc.
I really can't relate to Te.
here's a brief questionarie i did for another forum:
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
Ti - Te, Fe - Fi
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
i yearn for a confortable and stable life, it doesn't mean i don't want to taste everything i can, i would love to travel around the world, i would love to live in lots of places. I want to become usefull to myself, i want to be able to survive through hard shit. I would love to keep passion for life. I want to live a relaxed life.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
I was having a cool time last year, i was having a pretty solid relationship that i keep to this day. I also started the career i wanted in university finally. I was finally leaving behind some frustrations and fears that i had socially speaking.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
I feel inferior when people demonstrate their knowledge and they beat me up in discussions. I feel fucked there. I also feel bad when people show me how big are their lifes and how much money they have and i compare it to my situation and get pretty frustrated and sad.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I think that mostly feelings. It depends on the situation, and this is what is disturbing me so much about my type, i can't really tell if Fi or Fe. I considerate other's feelings in my decisions. Lately i've learn to not be so considerate with others. Life have show me that not because i was good i will be a better person. This is bullshit. So i can say that i'm much more careless about other's right now. I still have to say that it comes rather forced. I mean what naturally comes to be is to be considerate and put my feelings aside, think first of the other but then i say fuck them. This is why i'm not quite sure if Fi or Fe. I'm also always reading people's gestures, faces, and i make my own conclusions about them. I'm not sure if this is Fi, because i can be quite judgemental about people that i don't even know or on the contrary Fe cuz it's about interpretating their moods picking up different little pieces of nothing and making up an scify history.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
I can speak here of my band for example. Even if we were 4 members that are supposed to contribuite i was pretty dominating there cuz i was so confident about my composing that i pretty much nullified everyone else's ideas in the process. I wanted to be sure everything was according to my vision of the final outcome. Every little external aspect was discarded. But i discarded them almost trying to hide that i was opposed to them. I mean when there was some suggestion for a song, i would say ok, let's try it. Then little by little i can't explain exactly how it was like nothing ever happened and we leaved it like it was. I'm pretty individualist.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
It depends on what's the thing i'm going to learn. If you mean theory and studies stuff i prefer to think about it, once i can understand what i'm reading, the basic concepts and stuff then the next step is definitely some memorization.
When the stuff requires it i definitely want to try things with my hands.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
I'm really disorganized. I wish i was not. I feel bad about it and there are some ocassions where i feel really confortable after cleaning up all the mess. I suppose like everyone.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
I try to understand them and see if they make sense to me and try to apply them to my situation and stuff. This is Ti vs Te, i feel much more identified with Ti. But it could be also indicative of inferior Te for ISFPs and INFPs wich are the typical types i got when typed by people.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
Man, it is hard to answer. I mean, maybe both. I explain. I'm really concerned when it comes to feel people good in groups. But here's why: when i was younger i felt that people pushed me away all the time and that i was an outcast. Now when i see this happens i try to help other's that i see in my past situation. Yet at the same time it doesn't come naturally. It comes from what i've experienced and there's like some kind of relief or gratification for myself when doing it. So is it Fi or Fe?... The last part of the question is pretty meh. I don't believe i have some great beliefs inside of me, i act just according how i feel to every situation. There's no big morality. I mean there could be some like i don't want to see my brother naked in my house cuz it feels unconfortable for me for some reason. This is frustrating cuz i normally when i have to type another person it's like i can piece together the big puzzle, all the little shit reduces to 3 important details and voilá there's your type. But for me it's like everything can be placed in one way or another resulting in lots of possible types. I know it is not an exact science but so far i've thought about: ISFP, INFP, ISTP (specially for their hipersensitivity to relationships) INFJ, ISFJ and ESFJ.
I can minimize the options some more but i want you to bring your opinion here and debate it.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I think that under pressure i definitely speak before thinking. In normal conditions i don't usually say everything i think.
I prefer one to one communication, groups tired the fuck of me. If i'm confortable in a group then the group has to have a majority of introverts and maybe 2 extroverteds, this way we keep a balance. We're not jumping naked from our windows yet we're not all looking at the floor or shit. I know this are stereotypes but you get the idea.
Also i find one to one communication more interesting cuz i can ask questions to that person, about why she did something, why she likes that?, like we can interact in a more personal way.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Action surely speaks more.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Fuck them, they should have called me sooner. I'm now in my pajamas, eating some interesting fast food that i recently paid for and it's time to relax. If they have told me before i would have think of it. Most of time i prefer to stay at home.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
The only thing that stresses me is my girlfriend. I swear that there's almost nothing else in the world that can get me so stressed. I don't fucking know why cuz she's relaxed like me.
I say things that i shouldn't say. I get anxious. I overthink things. I get pretty sentimental when i'm really un-romantic - sentimental, etc.
This is pretty dificult cuz i'm so relaxed normally that i can't think of situations of stress besides some problems i have had with my gf so maybe if i get stressed about something else i wouldn't give a shit and maybe start jumping around or something.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Rigidness, people that only care about themselves (this is pretty ironic cuz i've been told several times that i only care about myself, i don't think this is true, i think i just don't manifest it as those person would like).
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
projects, whys, interesting things i see on the internet, random stuff, studies.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
I pay a lot of attention to food and sexual stuff. I find difficult to name things i don't pay attention to. I guess i don't pay attention to order. I don't really care about political stuff. I was pretty nihilistic about life at some point. I care about knowledge, i want to become a guru, some kind of wisdom man or something. I would love to become that kind of wise person when i'm older. It's kinda a dream, my intelligence and will separate me from it.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality ?
Weird, dummy, funny, maybe caring. Do not confuse caring with warmness.
Individualistic, kinda cold, doesn't show himself how he really is to everyone.
Hard to get to know.
I don't think they would differ that much from my own perspective.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Watch some movie, series, go for a walk, go eat some cool restaurant, spend some time on the internet, see my gf, have sex, play guitar, maybe sing a bit.
I really can't relate to Te.
here's a brief questionarie i did for another forum:
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
Ti - Te, Fe - Fi
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
i yearn for a confortable and stable life, it doesn't mean i don't want to taste everything i can, i would love to travel around the world, i would love to live in lots of places. I want to become usefull to myself, i want to be able to survive through hard shit. I would love to keep passion for life. I want to live a relaxed life.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
I was having a cool time last year, i was having a pretty solid relationship that i keep to this day. I also started the career i wanted in university finally. I was finally leaving behind some frustrations and fears that i had socially speaking.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
I feel inferior when people demonstrate their knowledge and they beat me up in discussions. I feel fucked there. I also feel bad when people show me how big are their lifes and how much money they have and i compare it to my situation and get pretty frustrated and sad.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I think that mostly feelings. It depends on the situation, and this is what is disturbing me so much about my type, i can't really tell if Fi or Fe. I considerate other's feelings in my decisions. Lately i've learn to not be so considerate with others. Life have show me that not because i was good i will be a better person. This is bullshit. So i can say that i'm much more careless about other's right now. I still have to say that it comes rather forced. I mean what naturally comes to be is to be considerate and put my feelings aside, think first of the other but then i say fuck them. This is why i'm not quite sure if Fi or Fe. I'm also always reading people's gestures, faces, and i make my own conclusions about them. I'm not sure if this is Fi, because i can be quite judgemental about people that i don't even know or on the contrary Fe cuz it's about interpretating their moods picking up different little pieces of nothing and making up an scify history.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
I can speak here of my band for example. Even if we were 4 members that are supposed to contribuite i was pretty dominating there cuz i was so confident about my composing that i pretty much nullified everyone else's ideas in the process. I wanted to be sure everything was according to my vision of the final outcome. Every little external aspect was discarded. But i discarded them almost trying to hide that i was opposed to them. I mean when there was some suggestion for a song, i would say ok, let's try it. Then little by little i can't explain exactly how it was like nothing ever happened and we leaved it like it was. I'm pretty individualist.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
It depends on what's the thing i'm going to learn. If you mean theory and studies stuff i prefer to think about it, once i can understand what i'm reading, the basic concepts and stuff then the next step is definitely some memorization.
When the stuff requires it i definitely want to try things with my hands.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
I'm really disorganized. I wish i was not. I feel bad about it and there are some ocassions where i feel really confortable after cleaning up all the mess. I suppose like everyone.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
I try to understand them and see if they make sense to me and try to apply them to my situation and stuff. This is Ti vs Te, i feel much more identified with Ti. But it could be also indicative of inferior Te for ISFPs and INFPs wich are the typical types i got when typed by people.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
Man, it is hard to answer. I mean, maybe both. I explain. I'm really concerned when it comes to feel people good in groups. But here's why: when i was younger i felt that people pushed me away all the time and that i was an outcast. Now when i see this happens i try to help other's that i see in my past situation. Yet at the same time it doesn't come naturally. It comes from what i've experienced and there's like some kind of relief or gratification for myself when doing it. So is it Fi or Fe?... The last part of the question is pretty meh. I don't believe i have some great beliefs inside of me, i act just according how i feel to every situation. There's no big morality. I mean there could be some like i don't want to see my brother naked in my house cuz it feels unconfortable for me for some reason. This is frustrating cuz i normally when i have to type another person it's like i can piece together the big puzzle, all the little shit reduces to 3 important details and voilá there's your type. But for me it's like everything can be placed in one way or another resulting in lots of possible types. I know it is not an exact science but so far i've thought about: ISFP, INFP, ISTP (specially for their hipersensitivity to relationships) INFJ, ISFJ and ESFJ.
I can minimize the options some more but i want you to bring your opinion here and debate it.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I think that under pressure i definitely speak before thinking. In normal conditions i don't usually say everything i think.
I prefer one to one communication, groups tired the fuck of me. If i'm confortable in a group then the group has to have a majority of introverts and maybe 2 extroverteds, this way we keep a balance. We're not jumping naked from our windows yet we're not all looking at the floor or shit. I know this are stereotypes but you get the idea.
Also i find one to one communication more interesting cuz i can ask questions to that person, about why she did something, why she likes that?, like we can interact in a more personal way.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Action surely speaks more.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Fuck them, they should have called me sooner. I'm now in my pajamas, eating some interesting fast food that i recently paid for and it's time to relax. If they have told me before i would have think of it. Most of time i prefer to stay at home.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
The only thing that stresses me is my girlfriend. I swear that there's almost nothing else in the world that can get me so stressed. I don't fucking know why cuz she's relaxed like me.
I say things that i shouldn't say. I get anxious. I overthink things. I get pretty sentimental when i'm really un-romantic - sentimental, etc.
This is pretty dificult cuz i'm so relaxed normally that i can't think of situations of stress besides some problems i have had with my gf so maybe if i get stressed about something else i wouldn't give a shit and maybe start jumping around or something.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Rigidness, people that only care about themselves (this is pretty ironic cuz i've been told several times that i only care about myself, i don't think this is true, i think i just don't manifest it as those person would like).
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
projects, whys, interesting things i see on the internet, random stuff, studies.
18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
I pay a lot of attention to food and sexual stuff. I find difficult to name things i don't pay attention to. I guess i don't pay attention to order. I don't really care about political stuff. I was pretty nihilistic about life at some point. I care about knowledge, i want to become a guru, some kind of wisdom man or something. I would love to become that kind of wise person when i'm older. It's kinda a dream, my intelligence and will separate me from it.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality ?
Weird, dummy, funny, maybe caring. Do not confuse caring with warmness.
Individualistic, kinda cold, doesn't show himself how he really is to everyone.
Hard to get to know.
I don't think they would differ that much from my own perspective.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Watch some movie, series, go for a walk, go eat some cool restaurant, spend some time on the internet, see my gf, have sex, play guitar, maybe sing a bit.
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