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Dario Nardi made a video saying that on the inside we have the opposite gender and functions type. I met my friend I had not seen in a long time at a park convention for mental health. I realized yesterday that she is ESFP and I also realized that we were exactly the same in how we interacted with each other. This could mean that online I present as my Anima self (female INTJ) well in real-life I am actually a male ESFP - What this means is that there is two sides to the person. The inside and the outside. We think of ourselves differently in public and private. We cannot tell what we are like by the distinction because of the persona. We present ourselves differently than how we normally would behave when we don't get the proper feedback being our genuine selves making us confused about who we actually are. We focus on our weaknesses sometimes. For me I guess this would be the tertiary pull (Te)
In the chart for the brain of the ESFP by Dario Nardi - they use the ofc and the ventral lateral pfc, these areas evaluate and shift our attention to the important things. These is less dlpc activity means we don't always process working memory before making decisions. In other words we get distracted easily or we hyper focus. Dario Nardi is INTJ - in his brain map we would see anticipation of what happens next with the parietal lobe and temporal lobe working together (TPJ) - ESFP would be "oow look a squirl" and follow it. INTJ would know where the squirrel would go before hand and catch it in an elaborate future plan.
So by looking at these differences the anima of the male ESFP (female INTJ) is often how I am when I talk to people online in text because I have time to think. But in real life I am distracted by squirls and cannot plan well. My opposite looks like a well organized and well thought out future oriented person. Its who I want to be or accepted as because it works better than who I actually am. In real life I am not this way but in my opposite side I am, only its a different environment than I would be able to demonstrate it in. I practice alot trying to be organized and plan because i am not good at it. More naturally I am talkative and exactly like my female ESFP friend.
In the chart for the brain of the ESFP by Dario Nardi - they use the ofc and the ventral lateral pfc, these areas evaluate and shift our attention to the important things. These is less dlpc activity means we don't always process working memory before making decisions. In other words we get distracted easily or we hyper focus. Dario Nardi is INTJ - in his brain map we would see anticipation of what happens next with the parietal lobe and temporal lobe working together (TPJ) - ESFP would be "oow look a squirl" and follow it. INTJ would know where the squirrel would go before hand and catch it in an elaborate future plan.
So by looking at these differences the anima of the male ESFP (female INTJ) is often how I am when I talk to people online in text because I have time to think. But in real life I am distracted by squirls and cannot plan well. My opposite looks like a well organized and well thought out future oriented person. Its who I want to be or accepted as because it works better than who I actually am. In real life I am not this way but in my opposite side I am, only its a different environment than I would be able to demonstrate it in. I practice alot trying to be organized and plan because i am not good at it. More naturally I am talkative and exactly like my female ESFP friend.