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There is this question which arises in my mind, the same question that Pilot asked Jesus before he crucified Him: What is truth?
There are various ways people conceptualize truth and different ways people engage with others around the topic of truth.
Some people will whitewash the truth for the sake of peace, while others are hardliners on truth and can be "brutally honest."
But what is truth? And can we know it?
I think everyone should think there is such a thing as truth. You do have some people who think everything is subjective, but if that is true (heh), then we can't actually make sense of anything, and knowing anything at all is impossible. Everything would devolve into "Yeah, well, that's just, like, your opinion, man." Society cannot function if that narrative becomes predominant. Because then there are certainly no moral truths. And if that is the case, then people can do whatever they want, and it becomes too judgmental to punish people for committing crimes. If the relativists have their way, then you can't tell anyone they are wrong because everything is just an opinion. There is no objective truth.
As for my own view of truth, I adhere to the correspondence view of truth. That just means that whatever is true corresponds with reality. There are other ideas of what truth is, but people have to be programmed to believe them since pretty much everyone is born believing in the correspondence view of truth.
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But then the question becomes, should we always tell the truth, even if it is harmful to people? I think in some very rare situations, it is okay to lie about a small thing if it means a greater good would come out of it. But it is certainly not something you want to get in the practice of. The kind of example I am talking about is lying to the Ghestopo saying that you are not hiding Jews when you actually are because a lie is a less bad moral thing than murder.
But to the point about this allowance to lie, how much can you bend things and not tell the truth for the sake of others? If I have a wife and my wife asks me if I like her outfit and I don't, can I lie to her and tell her I like it when I don't? There are replete examples of this in everyday life.
What about trying to distract from the truth someone is saying to keep the peace? What if one person feels someone is being insensitive with the truth they are saying, so the person says some completely unrelated truth to distract from the uncomfortable truth that one person is saying, which can hurt someone's feelings? To me, this is a logical fallacy. If someone has a preoccupation in believing that water is itchy, and I say, "No, water is wet," and then someone else thinks me telling the person, "Water is wet," will hurt their feelings and they say, "People can die from falling a long distance into water." That is also true, but it is actually cruel to the person who believes that water is itchy since it does not actually get them to see the faulty of their belief that water is wet, which is a correction to their view. In short, you have to let people correct other people even if it is uncomfortable for the person. Sometimes, the truth hurts, and in essence, all growth is based on discomfort in some way. In fact, I believe that when you have to change your mind about something that you used to think is true, it is quite a painful experience. But in the end, it actually helps you grow closer to being truthful in your orientation toward reality.
So the next time you see someone correcting someone else about something false that person believes, let it go. Let them struggle with the truth the person is telling them. Because if you interject yourself in that situation to "spare their feelings," you are literally being the devouring mother who eats her young in an effort to save them.
There are various ways people conceptualize truth and different ways people engage with others around the topic of truth.
Some people will whitewash the truth for the sake of peace, while others are hardliners on truth and can be "brutally honest."
But what is truth? And can we know it?
I think everyone should think there is such a thing as truth. You do have some people who think everything is subjective, but if that is true (heh), then we can't actually make sense of anything, and knowing anything at all is impossible. Everything would devolve into "Yeah, well, that's just, like, your opinion, man." Society cannot function if that narrative becomes predominant. Because then there are certainly no moral truths. And if that is the case, then people can do whatever they want, and it becomes too judgmental to punish people for committing crimes. If the relativists have their way, then you can't tell anyone they are wrong because everything is just an opinion. There is no objective truth.
As for my own view of truth, I adhere to the correspondence view of truth. That just means that whatever is true corresponds with reality. There are other ideas of what truth is, but people have to be programmed to believe them since pretty much everyone is born believing in the correspondence view of truth.

Is Truth subjective? What is Truth? How do God and Truth relate?
Do you remember when Pontius Pilot asks Christ, the savior of the world, "What is truth?" and then he just walks away? This seems to be quite a pervasive problem in the world today. Maybe people don't do exactly what Pilot did, but they more or less do the same thing with their words and...

But then the question becomes, should we always tell the truth, even if it is harmful to people? I think in some very rare situations, it is okay to lie about a small thing if it means a greater good would come out of it. But it is certainly not something you want to get in the practice of. The kind of example I am talking about is lying to the Ghestopo saying that you are not hiding Jews when you actually are because a lie is a less bad moral thing than murder.
But to the point about this allowance to lie, how much can you bend things and not tell the truth for the sake of others? If I have a wife and my wife asks me if I like her outfit and I don't, can I lie to her and tell her I like it when I don't? There are replete examples of this in everyday life.
What about trying to distract from the truth someone is saying to keep the peace? What if one person feels someone is being insensitive with the truth they are saying, so the person says some completely unrelated truth to distract from the uncomfortable truth that one person is saying, which can hurt someone's feelings? To me, this is a logical fallacy. If someone has a preoccupation in believing that water is itchy, and I say, "No, water is wet," and then someone else thinks me telling the person, "Water is wet," will hurt their feelings and they say, "People can die from falling a long distance into water." That is also true, but it is actually cruel to the person who believes that water is itchy since it does not actually get them to see the faulty of their belief that water is wet, which is a correction to their view. In short, you have to let people correct other people even if it is uncomfortable for the person. Sometimes, the truth hurts, and in essence, all growth is based on discomfort in some way. In fact, I believe that when you have to change your mind about something that you used to think is true, it is quite a painful experience. But in the end, it actually helps you grow closer to being truthful in your orientation toward reality.
So the next time you see someone correcting someone else about something false that person believes, let it go. Let them struggle with the truth the person is telling them. Because if you interject yourself in that situation to "spare their feelings," you are literally being the devouring mother who eats her young in an effort to save them.