to live with a girl or not to live?

[TheManBeyond]

Hi. I moved to athens for a while. I'll be doing some stuff here. The thing is that i'm on an hotel and looking for apartment. I don't have many options that fit my needs and yesterdayi saw an appartment that was pretty nice. The only thing is that there's a girl living there.
It might sound stupid but I'm quite lazy and untidy and nerdy. Plus perhaps the girl would feel unconfortable for sharing the flat with a man instead of another girl.
Do you think living would be ok or is it too dangerous?
In one hand I want to closethe deal because i'm too lazy to keep searching, the room is cool, flat well located, etc but in the other hand i'm not sure if this is the best decision.

I also talk with the girl and asked her if it was unconfortable for her it would be ok I would understamd and she told me there was no problem but perhaps she was being just polite cuz it is not her apartment.

Keep searching?

 

[Pyropyro]

Probably better off finding another apartment since there's too much variables to consider to move in with that girl.

No offense to the ladies here but this is from experience living with my sisters:
You might also find that women tend to leave lots of hair around which might be a hassle if they get into your stuff.
Women tend to have lots of stuff too so you might have less space to put your own stuff in.
It might be awkward bringing guests in the house especially since you have to explain your current predicament every time you do so.

 

[TheManBeyond]

lol yeah hair spreading is also a factor to consider.
I mean I only have in mind the option of sharing a flat with more people so I knew I would have some basic restrictions but... I had thought of some other ixxp guy like nanook or something this girl seems to be a xxxj by guts, imagine if she's some sfj!!!
Also I dont have much time since paying an hotel is not really a good thing to do.

 

[redbaron]

Ask if she likes daggers.

 

[TheManBeyond]

My presenttion card is this no matter of the gender

https://youtu.be/DLdQlpz-PL4

 

[Cheeseumpuffs]

Probably better off finding another apartment since there's too much variables to consider to move in with that girl.

There are too many variables when you move in with anyone you don't know. Sex isn't that huge of one.

No offense to the ladies here but this is from experience living with my sisters:
You might also find that women tend to leave lots of hair around which might be a hassle if they get into your stuff.
Women tend to have lots of stuff too so you might have less space to put your own stuff in.
It might be awkward bringing guests in the house especially since you have to explain your current predicament every time you do so.

What do you mean explain his predicament? That his flatmate is a girl? Big whoop, that's not really a "predicament."

I lived in an apartment with two girls. Everything went fine. I mean sure, hair got in weird places and sometimes people had habits that got on one anothers' nerves but it was never a point of stress or conflict. I'm living with a housemate now who walks around naked most of the time and leaves weed scraps and tobacco all over the place and has sex on our couch in our living room.

This is my point: All people are chaotic and random. They will do things that you dislike living with, regardless of their sex.

This girl said it's cool for you to move in, you said yourself the place is nice and all that. Move the fuck in.

 

[Pyropyro]

There are too many variables when you move in with anyone you don't know. Sex isn't that huge of one.

For you perhaps. But it is TMB who is asking the questions yes?

What do you mean explain his predicament? That his flatmate is a girl? Big whoop, that's not really a "predicament."

I lived in an apartment with two girls. Everything went fine. I mean sure, hair got in weird places and sometimes people had habits that got on one anothers' nerves but it was never a point of stress or conflict. I'm living with a housemate now who walks around naked most of the time and leaves weed scraps and tobacco all over the place and has sex on our couch in our living room.

This is my point: All people are chaotic and random. They will do things that you dislike living with, regardless of their sex.

This girl said it's cool for you to move in, you said yourself the place is nice and all that. Move the fuck in.

It's good that you have a high tolerance about things.

 

[Tannhauser]

I've shared flats with girls/girl several times, no problem whatsoever. They do have higher standards in terms of cleanness though so you might have to adjust. The only big problem to consider is the possibility of becoming something "more than flatmates" if ya know what I mean. Sounds good at first but becomes extremely tiresome in the long run. You'd probably prefer to have a completely non-personal atmosphere where you live, that's at least the case for me.

Another annoying thing is if they start bringing dudes home with them.

Yet another thing is that if they have a problem with something you do, instead of telling you they start acting weird and hostile.

Edit: actually, I take back that it is not a problem whatsoever. It's a huge pain in the ass.

 

[Pyropyro]

Another annoying thing is if they start bringing dudes home with them.

Edit: actually, I take back that it is not a problem whatsoever. It's a huge pain in the ass.

This reminds of a time when a certain girl brought her bf to the house for a few days. One of our housemates, a middle-aged lady, complained that the communal toilet smells of piss.

 

[YOLOisonlyprinciple]

What are you talking about? This should be a pretty clear decision for any guy;

Step 1: Is she cute?
Are you kiddin' me, you want an answer for this>

If she isnt; proceed to 2

Step 2: Is she kinda cute?
Live with her
If she isnt; proceed to 3

Step 3: Is she not ugly?
Live with her
If she is; proceed to 4

Step 4: Does she have cute besties wholl come often?
Live with her

If not, proceed to 5

Step 5: Is she well connected, and probably help you land some cute girl?
Live with her

If not, proceed to 6

Step 6: Live with her


Easy


PS, i think OP is trying to spite us, basement dwellers

 

[Ex-User (8886)]

Hi. I moved to athens for a while. I'll be doing some stuff here. The thing is that i'm on an hotel and looking for apartment. I don't have many options that fit my needs and yesterdayi saw an appartment that was pretty nice. The only thing is that there's a girl living there.
It might sound stupid but I'm quite lazy and untidy and nerdy. Plus perhaps the girl would feel unconfortable for sharing the flat with a man instead of another girl.
Do you think living would be ok or is it too dangerous?
In one hand I want to closethe deal because i'm too lazy to keep searching, the room is cool, flat well located, etc but in the other hand i'm not sure if this is the best decision.

I also talk with the girl and asked her if it was unconfortable for her it would be ok I would understamd and she told me there was no problem but perhaps she was being just polite cuz it is not her apartment.

Keep searching?

It's Ti-stiupidity: overthinking. Try it and learn new experience (Ne).

 

[onesteptwostep]

You could try, but you have to remember, girls can read your minds.

 

[Sinny91]

Simple. Initiate a conversation about your concerns, make it fun.
Like speed flatmate dating.

 

[Miss spelt]

How about

Don't over analyze it. Take the apartment and be clean. It's not hard, don't be dumb.

 

[emmabobary]

If I was you I wouldnt take the apartment mostly because I hate sharing. And to think all the possible things could happen if people gets too close to me, I could hate her, or fall in love with her, or try to kill her someday if I see something wrong about her hair that drives me crazy.


...That's why I rented a flat on my own two years ago, its a pain in the ass having to pay for it, its too big for only one, but i love it. And I haven't killed anyone ...since then.

 

[Absurdity]

Don't commit roomcest.

 

[Haim]

What are you talking about? This should be a pretty clear decision for any guy;

Step 1: Is she cute?
Are you kiddin' me, you want an answer for this>

If she isnt; proceed to 2

Step 2: Is she kinda cute?
Live with her
If she isnt; proceed to 3

Step 3: Is she not ugly?
Live with her
If she is; proceed to 4

Step 4: Does she have cute besties wholl come often?
Live with her

If not, proceed to 5

Step 5: Is she well connected, and probably help you land some cute girl?
Live with her

If not, proceed to 6

Step 6: Live with her


Easy


PS, i think OP is trying to spite us, basement dwellers

I think you have some kind of bug in your code or that you ignored you are writing this software to people.

 

[TheManBeyond]

uhm first of all i already sign the deal, it is done, i didn't think about it that much it was very clear but the thriller appealed. i wanted thus to see your opinions.
second, although i haven't thought of the sex and anything like that because it is quiteeee unlikely to happen like XD no, i must admit the girl is really good looking. because of this i'm like, act gentle, stay away, act gentle, stay away. there's nothing else by my side otherwise i would be some pervert or x.
clearly not my thing. at aaaaaall.
second thing, the boy sex companion she brings could be ankward. i'll have to deal with it lol.
like some loser.
third thing, everything is under control. smells are going to be covered up by some cheap bathroom perfume.
like some user above said i've also noticed girls sometimes act like they are full of hate and don't say nothing you have to guess it or ask them or something like that which is quite frustrating. that can be a problem sure.
i'll move in monday.
see you from inside. ;P

 

[Brontosaurie]

Make her become your girlfriend so you can watch her sleep. Not having someone to sleepwatch is the most unnatural frustration and needs resolution asap.

 

[TheManBeyond]

Make her become your girlfriend so you can watch her sleep. Not having someone to sleepwatch is the most unnatural frustration and needs resolution asap.

gayest quote ever
you must be or a lover from the past or
this guy

[BIMG]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4UhjShPbqHw/VcCdycr9nrI/AAAAAAAADMU/HpHLnplxEdE/s1600/Sleep-Tight2.jpg[/BIMG]

great movie btw

 

[not]

A girl doesn't know a WOLF when she sees him, a WOMAN knows her own body and might PREY on the pup. Be that it may, you won't be the ONE in a FLAT with a FEMALE without being invited. Don't CARE about it until it MATTERS TO YOU. As in move in and then tell us what it MEANS TO YOU. As it goes, I wouldn't know how to move into a FLAT in ATHENS if I live outside of Chesapeake beach, unless I meant ATHENS GEORGIA. Don't cry over spilled milk until it spills.

 

[Pizzabeak]

Kill

 

[TheManBeyond]

1st day of surviving, the specimen wakes up really early with chill out japanese music as background similar to this one: (without the drum beat)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQGL1ShTuQs

our conversation hasn't been that fluid, she passes time locked in her room or out.
i have to wash my clothes but the washing machine broke down yesterday.
i don't know how to use the kitchen, it is electric and my knowledge there is limited.
i might ask her later.

 

[ygnextend]

Hi. I moved to athens for a while. I'll be doing some stuff here. The thing is that i'm on an hotel and looking for apartment. I don't have many options that fit my needs and yesterdayi saw an appartment that was pretty nice. The only thing is that there's a girl living there.
It might sound stupid but I'm quite lazy and untidy and nerdy. Plus perhaps the girl would feel unconfortable for sharing the flat with a man instead of another girl.
Do you think living would be ok or is it too dangerous?
In one hand I want to closethe deal because i'm too lazy to keep searching, the room is cool, flat well located, etc but in the other hand i'm not sure if this is the best decision.

I also talk with the girl and asked her if it was unconfortable for her it would be ok I would understamd and she told me there was no problem but perhaps she was being just polite cuz it is not her apartment.

Keep searching?

I would get out of Greece all together.. Don't waste your time