On how to be stupid.

[ZenRaiden]

I don't like always being smart.
I cannot talk normal, because people talk about things and way they talk, just does not make sense.
INTP stuff sucks.
I like being alone, because alone I can be whatever.
But when I am with people I have to pretend a lot.
I kind of have issues of variety.
For instance I cannot say what I am thinking.
So I have to employ a type of double speak. I hate it. Because I can lie, but I suck at it.
The other issue is my tempo is horrible.
Many conversations with people I have are kind of obvious.
Like when someone talks about something I don't genuinely know its fun.
But when I know the topic, it kind of gets repetitive a lot.
N seek novelty I guess.

How do you interface with humans?
Peace.

 

[Black Rose]

I try to talk to my roommate's friends.

I am INFP so I find it easier because they are gay and very unique kind of friends.

What were the best interactions you had with people, perhaps replicate that?

I also go to a therapy group where we talk about mental health issues.

I get to talk about brain science there.

 

[ZenRaiden]

What were the best interactions you had with people, perhaps replicate that?

You mean face to face? Well for past years, few. I kind of schized out.
Its actually why I bother with this. Its kind of like every-time I interact it feels like I am doing mental gymnastics to appear normal.

 

[birdsnestfern]

Try to keep feeling and believing “I’m ok-You’re ok” no matter how different- that’s the spirit that allows people to relax.

just go to the inner child you and try to enjoy yourself in pure simplicity is best.

 

[ZenRaiden]

Try to keep feeling and believing “I’m ok-You’re ok” no matter how different- that’s the spirit that allows people to relax.

just go to the inner child you and try to enjoy yourself in pure simplicity is best.

I can see your point.

 

[birdsnestfern]

Its not so much stupid, but its if everyone held that attitude, more peace would be made. You can still talk about your truth, openly IF people put a lot of space between themselves and the world, and create a large area of space around yourself. Let yourself breathe and expand in that space.

 

[sushi]

alochol and sports.

 

[ZenRaiden]

alochol and sports.

I cannot drink, and I do already exercise. I will do sports probably.
I want to run 50 km and swim and do yoga currently. But I do solitary sports, as team sports are killing me.

 

[sushi]

be a sports watcher and commentator

not really excercise.

 

[ZenRaiden]

be a sports watcher and commentator

I cannot watch sports. I rather do sports, but watching sports for me is not possible.
I tried.

not really excercise.

I am kind of doing that. Not sure its healthy for me.
I think though I can try more.
Where there is will there is way.