Do you think of yourself as an ultimately attractive person?

[Linsejko]

I mean this in the most vague and universal sense possible. I don't explicitly mean in regards to romance, and explicitly mean whether you think that--if people really knew the depths you, really understood you... Do you think they would like what they see? Would they think of you as attractive, interesting, funny, wise, clever, mature, understanding, worthwhile, etc.?

The same rules apply: be brutally honest. Don't try and save face, or take shots at yourself, or feign modesty at the risk of seeming vain. You are hereby released from all social protocol (yes, even the one that has developed here among us...) for the space of this thread.

This is also not an invitation to other people to decide to say they disagree with those who speak well of themselves... So don't. Otherwise you will destroy the atmosphere of honesty that is so delicate and which could allow such a conversation to be truly had, honestly.

.L

 

[EyeSeeCold]

Dupe?

I'd say yea deep down, my personality outweighs my looks. Although my personality tends to seep into my appearance. If you don't value my interests, however, I guess my looks would be more apparent.

 

[Stoic Beverage]

Well, yes. But someone would have to know me first, and therein lies the barrier.

 

[SpaceYeti]

I usually get by on my smile, and piss people off when they get to know me.

 

[Methuselah]

I'm attracted to me.

But yeah, I do think I am. I'm a fighter, an optimist, I love my friends deeply, and I work very hard. All of that is tempered by the fact that I'm also a whole lot like Cartman. And yes, if you aren't looking, I will steal the skin off your KFC.

 

[Firehazard159]

Not at all for me. I mean, some days I ego trip, but whenever I really sit down and think about it, I mostly dislike everything about me and where I'm going, but cannot bring myself to change it very readily, and am baffled as to why some people *do* like and appreciate me.

I feel like saying a lot more, but I'm having trouble gathering my thoughts. If I do reconcile them, I'll post more later.

Unless you only want people responding here who *do* think highly of themselves, but I didn't get that impression, you wanted honesty. But by your post, you seem to think we may all be in line thinking we're the best, so to speak?

*shrugs*

 

[Linsejko]

No, I fully expect a spectrum. I don't intend this thread to be one giant ego trip.

Except for the possible new exceptions of God, Eternity, and Meaning, I generally pursue honesty in every form available to me, and at almost all possible costs.

.L