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Your Ideal Female 'Partner'

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Describe your ideal female partner. What attracts you in the areas of appearance, attitude, gender role (& extent), & any other identifiable 'vibes' etc.?

Also post pictures that represent the type of appearance you like. I'm interested in whether the INTP preferences are unique or interesting.

Not necessarily asking what type of woman you'd like to marry, but if you are seeking a girlfriend, casual mate, or sexual partner...

If you don't want to post this you may simply comment on others you (dis)agree with, or both.
 

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1. Don't be a bitch.
2. No really, don't be a bitch.
3. No gag reflex.
4. Won't lie to have me arrested.
5. Seriously, don't be a bitch.

I don't know. I don't sit here with a predetermined ideal for people. Honestly I think most of the girls I've significantly liked had absolutely nothing in common with each other, except for perhaps being generally awesome in my eyes. People that have predetermined ideals for their partners are just doomed to be disappointed.
 

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Big boobs, long legs, firm ass, and pretty eyes.

Not all in the one girl mind you, these are just boxes to be ticked off, experiences to be had so I can feel content that I've not missed out on anything.

Finally, brains, that's the one I can grow old with.
 

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Bohemian, leisurely sex views, highly intelligent, soft timbre sex kitten voice, passive, experienced, dirty, bookish, exotic high cheek bone look, stylish, intellectual, shameless, sarcastic, cutting, unplanned, musically inclined, independent, fearless, caring, unadventurous, drug friendly, and funny. Not that I have put any thought into this.
 

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a lot of those seem to conflict snafu.... :confused:


In my experience women tend to be more diverse in appearance and personality than men (at least on the outset) and there are a lot of different attractive archetypes and, for lack of a better word, styles.

Chief among my favored traits is complexity; conversely I find simplicity and conventionality extremely unattractive in both sexes. This follows with appearance, although it's often true that unusual looking individuals are uninteresting or just possess uninteresting complexes, although there's a definite thrill in finding a normal-looking individual whose brain stretches the definition of sanity (though not the contrived Deschanel way).

I do not like infantile women; they actively annoy me. It's a damn plague.
Fortunately those ones always pass me by, trolling instead for a dim male with a needy ego.
 

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Things I look for:

Fat, hairy faced, scuzzy cunt, mastectomy with one flapjack breast, balding, chain smoking, octa+ mom, child abuser, <70 IQ, deep voice, borderline personality, illiterate, trailer trash, sclerosis, halitosis, osteoporosis, polysomy, alcoholic, cutter, nymphomaniac, 30+ cats, white supremacist, creationist, dropout, shrill voiced, agoraphobic, hair lipped, toothless, pimple faced, american girl doll collecting, conservative.

I had 3 orgasms while writing this.
 

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Things I look for:

Fat, hairy faced, scuzzy cunt, mastectomy with one flapjack breast, balding, chain smoking, octa+ mom, child abuser, <70 IQ, deep voice, borderline personality, illiterate, trailer trash, sclerosis, halitosis, osteoporosis, polysomy, alcoholic, cutter, nymphomaniac, 30+ cats, white supremacist, creationist, dropout, shrill voiced, agoraphobic, hair lipped, toothless, pimple faced, american girl doll collecting, conservative.

I had 3 orgasms while writing this.

Are you sure they weren't seizures?
 

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makes sammiches

Things I look for:

Fat, hairy faced, scuzzy cunt, mastectomy with one flapjack breast, balding, chain smoking, octa+ mom, child abuser, <70 IQ, deep voice, borderline personality, illiterate, trailer trash, sclerosis, halitosis, osteoporosis, polysomy, alcoholic, cutter, nymphomaniac, 30+ cats, white supremacist, creationist, dropout, shrill voiced, agoraphobic, hair lipped, toothless, pimple faced, american girl doll collecting, conservative.

I had 3 orgasms while writing this.

Are you sure they weren't seizures?

Lol. Goddamn, now I can't take this seriously.

Chief among my favored traits is complexity; conversely I find simplicity and conventionality extremely unattractive in both sexes.

I do not like infantile women; they actively annoy me. It's a damn plague.

Agreed. Intelligence is very attractive, as time goes by I'm finding it more important, at least a measure is kind of necessary to be able to respect a person. A little femininity is good too, it's nice to notice that difference between myself as a man, and a woman.
 

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Short
Brown hait
Blunt
Tells me what she wants
I feel like i can say anything to her
she gets my dark, pot-headish, and cruel humor
look like she takes care of her self
natural beauty, ie no makeup except like eye liner
gamer
two different colored eyes (eye-deally <-lol)
not a snobby bitch
knows how to cook well
affectionate
can get lost in music, the sky, or art with me
not a fucking club rat
not a giggle bitch or a "OMG" bitch
good work ethic
Intelligent and not easily offended

That is my "ideal" woman but realistically im attracted to many different types of women, however, they all do have something in common: Short, Intelligent(compared to most other women I've met) , not bitchy, and good work ethic.

I could go on and on i guess, but then i would just be rambling
 

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smart, funny, & a pinch of cute wouldn't hurt. I don't mind bitchiness as it helps me get off my ass and do things ;)
 

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At least I know I could try and fool Adaire then, I'm the most ordinary looking sociopath on Granby Grove (which I guess isn't saying much as they all seem to be tories/ fundamentalist Christians anyway, *sigh*)

I guess the complex type is one way of putting it. There are large stores of myself that only come out when with the right company, I like people that bring out my creative side. Also that have tastes mutual to mine in at least some way, that allow growth for both people. Like, occasionally I meet someone and then find I've been introduced to a whole new genre of great music I never heard of, or shelves of great films I've never seen - I love that.

Appearance doesn't bother me greatly, you know, as long as they're not any of A.I.'s list. :D Or really unhealthy, I love long strolls/ hiking, being with someone who couldn't dare venture outside on account of laziness would make me :evil: RAGE
 

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Things I look for:

Fat, hairy faced, scuzzy cunt, mastectomy with one flapjack breast, balding, chain smoking, octa+ mom, child abuser, <70 IQ, deep voice, borderline personality, illiterate, trailer trash, sclerosis, halitosis, osteoporosis, polysomy, alcoholic, cutter, nymphomaniac, 30+ cats, white supremacist, creationist, dropout, shrill voiced, agoraphobic, hair lipped, toothless, pimple faced, american girl doll collecting, conservative.

I had 3 orgasms while writing this.

Have you visited Alabama?

All you needed to say was conservative; that would have amply conveyed the rest.
 

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a lot of those seem to conflict snafu.... :confused:


In my experience women tend to be more diverse in appearance and personality than men (at least on the outset) and there are a lot of different attractive archetypes and, for lack of a better word, styles.

Chief among my favored traits is complexity; conversely I find simplicity and conventionality extremely unattractive in both sexes. This follows with appearance, although it's often true that unusual looking individuals are uninteresting or just possess uninteresting complexes, although there's a definite thrill in finding a normal-looking individual whose brain stretches the definition of sanity (though not the contrived Deschanel way).

I do not like infantile women; they actively annoy me. It's a damn plague.
Fortunately those ones always pass me by, trolling instead for a dim male with a needy ego.

Debatable but obviously I don't agree that those traits clash with one another.

You may have honed in on "unadventurous" and "experienced" as foils. Well, you also could have opposed "dirty" and "stylish" or perhaps "bohemian" and "caring" too on grounds that they seem superficially mutually exclusive. It's difficult to guess what you were thinking.

I know people who embody basically all of these traits already though - including the ones most on the contradictory chopping block.

Moreover, without qualifying any of those adverbs and impressionistic phrases, you're really at a disadvantage in terms of flipping what I said.

Meh, I stand by everything on the list...even if AI was lampooning the list later, which I'm still unsure of. He had a solid list though.
 

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Give me Babalon.

Give me the lady in Red.

The beautiful, honest, free and sexual.

The enigma and the challenge of a true woman.


Intelligent, beautiful, self-sufficient, strong and liberated.


Throw in bountiful curiosity and that's her...
As a bonus, it would be cool if we had similar interests, but this is not a necessity, really.
 

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Honest. Sensitive. Empathic. Happy. Pretty. Intelligent. Supportive. Feminine. Feminine curves.

Some random pictures from the internet I find attractive:




I tend to fall for the artistic, hipster-y type of girl. (But not the ones that try really hard to be part of the "hip people". I like the naturally original, artistic girls. You know.)
 

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girls like zoey Deschanel
http://hairstylesandcuts.net/cool-zooey-deschanel-hairstyles-and-pictures.html

Kate Mora
http://www.listal.com/viewimage/441256h

below copied and pasted from http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakultaeten/phil_Fak_II/Psychologie/Psy_II/beautycheck/english/prototypen/prototypen.htm

Suntanned skin, Narrower facial shape, Less fat, Fuller lips, Slightly bigger distance of eyes, Darker, narrower eye brows, More, longer and darker lashes, Higher cheek bones, Narrower nose, No eye rings, Thinner lids

(D)"Barbie type": thin, big breasts, tight pelvis, long legs
 

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In all honesty, I don't think I have an ideal type.

Some things I would find quite acceptable: tattoos, piercings, geek, punk, goth, suicide girl, nerd, bohemian, artsy, anywhere between skinny and thick, short or tall, glasses or no glasses, short hair or long hair, genetic female or M2F transsexual, any race, any color hair, anywhere between 21 years old and 40 years old, open minded, individualist, intelligent, more of a go-getter than me.

Things I would not find acceptable: my previous list.
 

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I've always found myself attracted to "Alternative" or "Rocker chic" (or even emo/goth) type women. This probably stems from the fact that I have a non-conformist, rebel type of personality, and find the same in women to be attractive.

There's nothing I find more bland than the average ditsy, submissive, blonde women who wears pink all the time and used to be a ballerina (it's a shame b/c these are the only types that hit on me). I just don't like overly-feminine "girly girls" and I melt over women who defy this gender-mold.

These are pictures of the type that I find irresistible (but cannot seem to attain)...




















 

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I don't have a list, but there are some thing that are intolerable.
A lady friend must be attractive BUT must not try to say too much with how she looks. I don't care what beliefs she holds, but if she tries to conform me without presenting some decent arguments she's trash. Complexity is good, but plz stop short of insanity ty.
 

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Huge knockers
 

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looking back at my previous post i think i've already found her :o
 

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I see more and more that I want an emotionally expressive female. I always find myself benchmarking my relationships and constantly reading her reactions to things and taking it into consideration for future actions. I guess it is a bit of a game to me. When I am with another INTP, I cannot read her...I just feel kind of lost and I have no idea where to go or how to act.

I mean, I think my biggest problem would not be my accepting and being able to put up with her but vice versa. Could she put up with me without cheating or going insane. Then again, the INTP type in general is rather accepting assuming the person in question is not a moron.
 

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I am not sure really. It is like i don´t know i am not interested so much if i had to i would most likely pick intelligent one with dirty blond hair. I can´t say attractive because what i find as attractive others don´t so yes definitely sarcastic easygoing. Impulsive would be funny but just for some period of time so that is why easygoing. Minimalist. But i still think the best option would be no partner. If i think deeper about that i usually end in opinion that meaning of life should be to sire offspring and raise it into point where it will be able to do the same but that is just my opinion on biological purpose of life so yes i don´t care to much because i don´t want to get into situation where i will have to chose my vessel for procreation of offspring but it is just my hypothesis because it may look like stupidity so i will just put it like that i am not interested in anybody but i will probably find somebody because i don´t know what should i do here or why am i here even i know i can choose. So fine intelligent with dirty blond hair better smaller in best same as me sarcastic, easygoing, funny and unmanipulative.
 

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She's gotta have nice full lips, big butt, nice chest, and very elegant looking. Face piercings are cute, long full hair, big loop earrings. In terms of personality she's gotta have some swagg, I get absolutely googly-eyed at girls that super obvious with their flirting. It turns a decent girl to somebody I would hookup with. Here's some pics:

Antronique Smith

http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/bG0vBpYK1ic/5th+Anniversary+Creme+Crop+Post+BET+Awards/-F5m4LfXb3O/Antonique+Smith

Eva Mendes


http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0578949/