fluffy
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I think I let what other people think of me have to much control over me. I give away my power to unproductive thought.
This happens I believe because validation is important to the human being. Not enough and we become insecure. This emotional state requires alleviation and that leads towards behavioral changes as to what will produce it.
Some people just want immediate relief so expensive emotions immediately. Others hold them inside and others turn them off.
The insecurity as it is needs integration and depending on the maturity of the person this happens differently. They can direct it inward or outward. At others or themselves. Whatever makes the emotion go away.
It seems that I have the problem of not knowing how to express myself but direct this inward at others. Yet the emotions don't go away. My insecurities come from people not understanding. I don't know what to do so the emotions are not integrated.
I could not care about it. That might help. Only it would need to happen in a non negative way. I believe it is important for others to understand me but not everyone matters so much and that doesn't mean I should be rude or indifferent. Just not expecting they need to be who I rely on.
Insecurity does come from not having people to rely on. Most negative emotions stem from this in people. A person in life was unreliable during an important moment in life so insecurity happened that carved out emotional damage in the person. They then dealt with it in the way they knew how.
I am not allowed to say things to people when I am angry. It makes things unproductive because they don't understand and or get mad.
This happens I believe because validation is important to the human being. Not enough and we become insecure. This emotional state requires alleviation and that leads towards behavioral changes as to what will produce it.
Some people just want immediate relief so expensive emotions immediately. Others hold them inside and others turn them off.
The insecurity as it is needs integration and depending on the maturity of the person this happens differently. They can direct it inward or outward. At others or themselves. Whatever makes the emotion go away.
It seems that I have the problem of not knowing how to express myself but direct this inward at others. Yet the emotions don't go away. My insecurities come from people not understanding. I don't know what to do so the emotions are not integrated.
I could not care about it. That might help. Only it would need to happen in a non negative way. I believe it is important for others to understand me but not everyone matters so much and that doesn't mean I should be rude or indifferent. Just not expecting they need to be who I rely on.
Insecurity does come from not having people to rely on. Most negative emotions stem from this in people. A person in life was unreliable during an important moment in life so insecurity happened that carved out emotional damage in the person. They then dealt with it in the way they knew how.
I am not allowed to say things to people when I am angry. It makes things unproductive because they don't understand and or get mad.
