Rebis
Blessed are the hearts that can bend
I find myself generally not acting on a moral precedent, I've accepted everyone's personality irrespective of the ugly sides. While I used to become annoyed with people lying, I have exchanged that feeling for analysing why they are lying; are they anxious and perhaps need to be seen as dominant? Do they just want consolation? Is it part of their meta-narrative; are they projecting ideal properties, in order for people recieving that persona to be true, in order for them to be coerced into adapting that persona?
To understand people you must not predicate your understanding on a filter of what you percieve to be good or bad. Reality is just reality, if you do not accept that all possible states can occur then you have an illegitimate perspective on human behaviour. That is not to say you can't be repulsed but accepting that all possible decisions can occur, you don't try to change their behaviour to fit morality.
I'm specifically addressing personal interactions rather than systemic procedure. Of course laws are designed to do what we don't want others to do to us, but what we may want to do to them. Schizophrenics, mentally ill individuals, sociopathic frugal businessesmen, exhibitionistic narcissistics; I speak to all equally, the only modifier is personal interest.
To understand people you must not predicate your understanding on a filter of what you percieve to be good or bad. Reality is just reality, if you do not accept that all possible states can occur then you have an illegitimate perspective on human behaviour. That is not to say you can't be repulsed but accepting that all possible decisions can occur, you don't try to change their behaviour to fit morality.
I'm specifically addressing personal interactions rather than systemic procedure. Of course laws are designed to do what we don't want others to do to us, but what we may want to do to them. Schizophrenics, mentally ill individuals, sociopathic frugal businessesmen, exhibitionistic narcissistics; I speak to all equally, the only modifier is personal interest.