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Old 9th-December-2013, 04:27 AM   #1
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Default Experiences in Close Relationships Scale.

I posted this test in another thread last night. It deals with attachment theory. I scored very highly in the Anxious-Preoccupied category (like, right in the most extreme section of it).

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Old 9th-December-2013, 06:34 AM   #2
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I am ensconced in the Secure Attachment group. I should hope so. My partner and I will have been in a relationship for 8 years by January.

I had trouble with one question though: When romantic partners disapprove of me, I feel really bad about myself.

I see that they want to gage if my self worth is deeply affected by how my partner views me but I have never once felt my partner disapproved of me. If he did then it is because I have done something I would disapprove of myself for doing and that would make me feel really bad about myself.

I'm probably just overthinking it.
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Old 9th-December-2013, 07:40 AM   #3
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I'm in the Secure-Attachment.

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I had trouble with one question though: When romantic partners disapprove of me, I feel really bad about myself.

I see that they want to gage if my self worth is deeply affected by how my partner views me but I have never once felt my partner disapproved of me. If he did then it is because I have done something I would disapprove of myself for doing and that would make me feel really bad about myself.
I got stuck on this question for about a minute as well. I just put neither agree nor disagree in the end, not knowing how else to answer.
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Old 9th-December-2013, 10:29 AM   #4
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Old 9th-December-2013, 11:49 AM   #5
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Old 9th-December-2013, 12:53 PM   #6
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Old 9th-December-2013, 01:37 PM   #7
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preoccupied, bordering on fearful-avoidant

i call bullshit (<---- yes very bold)
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Old 9th-December-2013, 10:05 PM   #8
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preoccupied, bordering on fearful-avoidant

i call bullshit (<---- yes very bold)
I wouldn't call bullshit on the idea that people sometimes exhibit these sets of traits, but I would definitely question that these are static traits(like MBTI type) rather than dynamic and based on interpersonal factors.

I would also question that people are oriented the same across different relationships of attachment, including family vs friends, and even platonic relationships can be close/intimate.

Personally I do better with platonic relationships when it comes to this idea of attachment styles, while for sexual/romatic relationships I'm pretty sure I would be considered somewhere on the border of fearful-avoidant and dismissive.
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Old 9th-December-2013, 10:15 PM   #9
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Old 9th-December-2013, 10:27 PM   #10
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1.4 on avoidance, 2.6 on anxiety. I think I'm reliant on my partner, but I'm fine alone as long as I know, in my head, that they're somewhere on this planet and I can reach them if I'd really need them. Somehow gives meaning to going through shitty stuff, and is quite nice this way.
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Old 15th-December-2013, 07:58 PM   #11
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i'm in secure attachment
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Old 17th-January-2014, 09:13 PM   #12
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Your score for avoidance was 2.3
Your score for anxiety was 3.5

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I'm going trough a very messy breakup/change/broken trust... thing at the moment. So I'm sure my answers are influenced by that.
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Old 17th-January-2014, 09:49 PM   #13
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fearful-avoidant bordering dismissive
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Old 22nd-January-2014, 07:43 PM   #14
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Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
Your score for avoidance was 4.3, this personality trait is related to how much you are unwilling to allow yourself to be vulnerable to your partner. High scorers do not like to open up to others. Low scorers share their feelings freely.
Your score for anxiety was 4.1, this personality trait is related to how much you worry about your partner paying attention to you. People who score high on this trait frequently worry about, and are dissatisfied with, the attention they recive. Low scorers tend not to worry about this.
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Old 23rd-January-2014, 02:43 AM   #15
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Ya, I'm bored.
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Old 24th-October-2016, 02:54 AM   #17
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''I often want to merge completely with romantic partners''

This is porbably a bit contradicting to my end results but I have never related more to question on a test. When I get really invested in another person, I just want to leave my body behind and stuff my soul/brain/being into their body and really be one with them. It's crazy in a really creepy and uncharming way.
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Old 24th-October-2016, 03:43 AM   #18
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Pretty close to last time, seems like a decent test.
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Old 24th-October-2016, 07:36 AM   #19
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I already know how I score on these...

Deep, deeper yet deeper into dismissing attachment.
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I seem to have moved across from dismissing to fearful (if this particular test is accurate at all).. I've been trying to change... but change has only been theoretical, thus far.
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Old 24th-October-2016, 01:36 PM   #21
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Wow I'm so normie. Middle of the road secure attachment for me. This doesn't seem congruent with my relationship history, maybe all the fuckedupedness countered each other out or something? Or *gasp* I'm adjusting?
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