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    Splash!

    Agreed. More or less :].
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    Staying happy, how do you do it?

    Mispost.
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    Staying happy, how do you do it?

    I disagree. I don't think its a checklist that you go through every day. I think these are qualities that are learned. I think a lot of people take a lifetime to learn them all. But I think these are qualities that charismatic people have. Think of the people who are the most genuine and...
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    TED ideas worth spreading

    I'd like to second this nomination. This site has profoundly changed my life.
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    Splash!

    If we make a splash, do you think we are noticed? Do you think we are seen? Should we be seen? I mean, if you don't speak up how will anyone know you are there? If you have unasked questions how will you find the answers? If you never leave your comfort zone, how can you ever...
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    Staying happy, how do you do it?

    Let me try to describe the life of happy person with these 10 qualities. If any of you guys are following my meanderings you'll notice a theme :P -Feeling in control of one's life -Knowing how to fortify one's "stress hardiness" -Being empathetic -Displaying effective communication and other...
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    Resilience

    Have any of you read, The Power of Resilience: Achieving Balance, Confidence, and Personal Strength in Your Life, by Dr. Robert Brooks and Sam Goldstein Or any literature on resilience? I'd be curious to hear other people's opinions on resilience and how they've managed to implement any of the...
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    How introverted are you?

    @ESC: Ok you carry a valid point, cultivating intimate friendships is a valid way to maintain your social interactions. I simply think that one shouldn't be so quick to forsake people, but I guess rarely a person would ever hold the position that they forsake all people, which makes my argument...
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    How introverted are you?

    I'm introverted and loathe it. It's funny because I obsess over socializing and yet rarely am I able to connect with people on a meaningful level that would inspire a lasting friendship. At least on my side of the table, I tend to be a people pleaser in my social interactions because that was...
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    INTP forum and walls of text

    Ya, you expressed this well :).
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    INTP forum and walls of text

    Lol Auburn, I feel like you described exactly what I went through to perfect my writing. I used to struggle with writing and I would try my hardest to be concise and be precise, but then when I got to a university i decided to dabble a little on the side of crazy. I just let my thoughts flow and...
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    How do you develop Fe?

    The best way to learn is through experience. You've got to be willing to throw yourself out there and try things out, mess up, and do it again. Whenever you are in a discussion, check your values and opinions about the topic, then express them. It's rather intuitive, I have a theory about the...
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    Hello!

    Hello. I like architecture too. For me its the organization, the efficiency, but I'm not limited just to function, the design matters too. It's fascinating this new obsession i have with design. There's a psychology to it. I wouldn't focus too much on the details. We are called architects...
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    Confidence

    POTATO SOUP! *throws a spud*
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    What course is for me?

    This. How do you add names? The insanity is that we're trying to rationally determine what would be best for us. You're playing the wrong game. Rationality rarely has anything to do with our desires, except when our desires decide to play by rationalities rules (and even then it's probably...
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