- Jun 29, 2015
A few years ago this girl and I started talking. At first she seemed like an ENFx because she seemed really energetic when ever she was around me and she seemed to get upset real easily or express her view on a certain topic. However, the longer I knew her, the more I started figururing out she's an infp (or so I think) since she seems like she has my personality with a lot more emotion and displays some infp traits. Like, it's literally next to impossible to get her to come to things, like I'll invite her and she'll seem exited and ask about it if we see each other before it, but she won't show up. She'll show up to other parties/events where I'm the only person she knows though. For instance, one time we " ran " into each other at the fair and she ditched her friend to chill with me for like 5 hours. Another time she showed up at my friends bonfire with a couple of friends which she then ditched and came and sat by me, but once she saw how many people were there she went inside because she said she only thought there was going to be a couple people, but there was like 20. I highly doubt she realiszes how frustrating her not coming to things I invite her to is. Since I'm an intp I think about this probably 85% of my day, to the point where I think she hates me and just about give up on her. However this is probably the only person that I'll actually like that is somewhat attracted to me without getting to know me. I'm pretty sure I love her, since she's really the only person that makes me feel any type of intense emotion, but she rarely comes to things.