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What do think is your greatest flaw?

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Interpret the question however you wish.

I think mine is either procrastination, or trying to rush through the process of important things.
 

Pyropyro

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Direwolf

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Nice pyro. Nice. Well anyway i think mine would be my ego. You know pride before the fall. The problem is i dont want to fall. But the longer before i do the more it will hurt.
 

Anktark

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Gotta be either not following through or procr
 

Jennywocky

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If I was to be honest, probably the "procrastination / not proactive enough" thing as well.

If I was to be dishonest, <add self-flattering shit here>.

I'm too sexy. So sexy it hurts.
I know, I know... I wince in pain every time I look at you.




:D
 

Fukyo

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Stubbornness, obstinance, self defeatism, spite, fundamental distrust, lack of ambition and motivation.
 

Grayman

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Arrogance but not because I think I am a special cherry, no offense cc, but because I believe others lack reason and fail to hit the mark.
 

Fukyo

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Arrogance but not because I think I am a special cherry, no offense cc, but because I believe others lack reason and fail to hit the mark.
Probably should've listed that one, but I mentally put it under "fundamental distrust"
 

pjoa09

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I meant relationships, sorry.



I am also pretty fucking mentally retarded, I wish I wasn't.
 

Pizzabeak

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Holding on to the past, not interacting with people how I ideally would like to, poor at fruitful relationships (wtf?), actually being isfj, always want to do the opposite of what people want me to do, not good at anything, finding a lot of what people fall for to be lame or ridiculous - sucks for them, keep forgetting about my passions, either side of family might actually have genetic predispositions for schizophrenia, way too behind on what i should be doing, too shy, not actually shy, politics are lame, would rather live in space with a robot, seems like it takes way too much effort to have to constantly impress people for semi-decent social standing, i used to but still kinda do, people always try to copy me and want to be friends and get mad because i unintentionally act like i'm better than everyone else, having to deal with everyone's insecurities
 

EyeSeeCold

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Interpersonal: Socially blind, unmotivated, too cautious
Intrapersonal: Forgetful> Stubborn, Irrational > Procrastinating (I've been improving a lot)
 

Helvete

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My greatest floor would have to be the upstairs one where my room is, it isn't actually my floor though. You did say interpret how you want...

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Grayman

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My greatest floor would have to be the upstairs one where my room is, it isn't actually my floor though. You did say interpret how you want...

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Interpretation still requires to use the actual words and not your own that in no way relate to the words. Be thankful that I am right or you would likely hate law even more than you do now and ... I know you hate it... don't even think about denying ... I told you not to think about it.
 

Vrecknidj

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Naïveté.

I tend to be overly charitable in my assumptions about others' motivations. It's burned me rather terribly in the past. Despite this, I haven't turned into a hateful despiser of others and continue to just be vulnerable.
 

Pyropyro

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I know, I know... I wince in pain every time I look at you.




:D
Avert thy eyes from time to time Jenny. I just rushed a girl to the hospital. The doc said it was due to prolonged exposure to my slothy sexiness :P


Seriously though, I think my greatest flaw is poor emotional communication. Sometimes emotional cues just go over my head, frustrating me and the people around me.
 

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Poor friend and companion. I can rather be like Paul Dirac

There was the time when a visiting American academic, pink with excitement at the thought of sitting next to the great Dirac during a college dinner, was greeted with two courses of utter silence. Eventually, the poor American ventured: ‘Are you going anywhere nice on holiday this year?’ After 35 minutes more silence and the arrival of the cheese course, Dirac finally responded: ‘Why do you ask?’
 

Helvete

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Interpretation still requires to use the actual words and not your own that in no way relate to the words. Be thankful that I am right or you would likely hate law even more than you do now and ... I know you hate it... don't even think about denying ... I told you not to think about it.
I try not to think to much about the finer details in lyf it is a lot of hassle. you are wrong about me hating the law, hatred is to energy consuming.but It is definitely an inconvenience though.

I am aware of the errors here, its alright.

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Not knowing who I am or what I want.
Get used to it. Everybody is unsure about that, some more than others. N types are more in a continual state of becoming, NF's the most, NT's next, SP's then SJ's. Some SJ's change reluctantly but all of them change little throughout their lives. NF's, particularly Introverts, have it the worst. NT's usually are in a state of continual improvement.

My guess is you know who you are and what you want, but not to the degree of precision you'd prefer.
 

redbaron

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I sometimes eat lots of lollies when I shouldn't and it makes me feel sick.

:(

Also I was sent back in time to kill Hitler but I just ended up raiding the Haribo factory instead. Sorry.
 

wilsonwatson

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I don't understand my own emotions. They build up because I ignore them until they explode and I don't even know what's going on.

I trust no one. This is a problem because, sadly, I'm still a social ape who needs to actually have serious conversations with other people from time to time.

I'm accidentally a horrible bitch to people all the time, so much so that it's as if I have a personal vendetta against the people I care about most, because I'm scared they'll realize that I actually care about them.

I'm too damn honest.
 

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I don't understand my own emotions. They build up because I ignore them until they explode and I don't even know what's going on.

I trust no one. This is a problem because, sadly, I'm still a social ape who needs to actually have serious conversations with other people from time to time.

I'm accidentally a horrible bitch to people all the time, so much so that it's as if I have a personal vendetta against the people I care about most, because I'm scared they'll realize that I actually care about them.

I'm too damn honest.

I have those flaws too, and while I know they are flaws, I don't actually conciously consider them flaws...I suppose that is a flaw in itself. Another thing is I will act completely rude to people all the time, but when I do I don't realize that I'm doing it, so I get really confused when the other person will gets upset.

When I really think about it, I suppose this is my greatest flaw; the people in nice to I usually don't give a shit about, but the people I'm most horrible to (I can be quite the hot head) are the people I care the most about. Of course, most people don't understand this is how I express that I care about them, so I've ended up scarring off a few really close friends.
 

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I don't understand my own emotions. They build up because I ignore them until they explode and I don't even know what's going on.
Common for INTP's. I regularly blew up as a kid. Happens to my INTP kid too. With Fe in the inferior we want to ignore them, so they build and eventually kaboom.

I've matured so that doesn't happen except in miniature. I'll choke up at sappy parts of movies, for example. Just a needed little venting, even though I generally express and am much more aware of my emotions than when I was a kid.
 

ddspada

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>Procrastination
>Very poor emotional rapport with most others
>Almost complete disability to fake excitement
>Emotions can explode
>Occasionally treating people with major disrespect when they are not proficient in abstractions, logic or mental sparring
>I can produce and say out loud extremely caustic comments without realizing it
 

Armature_Sally

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I have an over-active imagination and a tendency to live inside it in preference to participating in the shared reality that most people seem to operate from.

This is very unproductive and can be isolating, as very few people have the time/inclination to indulge in such fantasies, though it's outrageously fun when people do.

I get on really well with kids in this sense. Perhaps, at 22, I'm just immature.
 

The Grey Man

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Not knowing who I am or what I want.
This is my biggest flaw by far, but it's also my essential characteristic. Take that away, and I'm living a lie.
 

DaDaMan

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An almost complete lack of interest in practical\worldly affairs.
 

Pyropyro

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Not knowing who I am or what I want.
Sun Tzu says "If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle."
 

The Grey Man

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Sun Tzu says "If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle."
Heck, if you don't know yourself, ask yourself, "why am I fighting? Whose war is this? My own, someone else's or that of somebody I'd like to be?"

Should he who doesn't know himself be fighting his own lack of inherent direction (perhaps distracting from it), or embracing it?
 

Grayman

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Heck, if you don't know yourself, ask yourself, "why am I fighting? Whose war is this? My own, someone else's or that of somebody I'd like to be?"

Should he who doesn't know himself be fighting his own lack of inherent direction (perhaps distracting from it), or embracing it?
Of course they should. How else do I get my minions to follow me without question?
 

The Grey Man

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Of course they should. How else do I get my minions to follow me without question?
...

Your minions are subservient to an authority they don't question. This seems to imply that direction and organization are ends to them, rather than following from or in service to them. This has disturbing parallels to rule-oriented types I meet on a regular basis.
 

Jaffa

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Wine. And feeling depressed for 16 hours a day, the other 8 I'm a child whom is high on Serotonin.

Also, having a huge pile of unopened mail because it doesn't look important. I'll open it one day.
 

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For now, it's my social skills. I don't actually consider it a flaw though since the only reason I try to get better at it is because it makes life easier in certain contexts (which I will remove myself from in the near future). I don't give a shit otherwise.

Real flaw: my self esteem. It just took a huge hit a couple of weeks ago.
 

Bock

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Feeling like shit and having little to zero energy 85% of my waking hours. Depression, avoidant-tier anxiety and social phobia is secondary.
 

Mithrandir

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  1. Lack of skill in verbal communication.
  2. Lack of emotional insight, availability, and expression.
  3. Lack of attention to the mundane or uninteresting.
Bonus: General apathy towards anything but my inner world.
 

TheScornedReflex

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Fool enough to almost be it. Cool enough to not quite see it.
 

Cæilon

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Never changing.

By the way, hello everyone. :)
 

doncarlzone

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Inauthenticity. A killing self-consciousness and perpetual doubt might be the cause of that.
 
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