Underage Pregnancy

[Rebacur]

God gave me the right at my age and I have the choice to take it. Why don't people let kids have babies with will? It makes me so very mad when my mom tells me to abort because of my age, 13. My boyfriend's 23 and he can support me in all ways perfectly.

Don't you think that any mature, level-headed girl in the right life is alright to make the decision? I'm going to be a loving mother, 14 (going to be 14 by time baby born) or 25.

 

[Sparrow]

Is this a joke?

 

[Rebacur]

Is this a joke?

All what I've said is real, and I think it's pretty silly for you to say it's a joke when this thread is awaiting serious replies

 

[Sparrow]

Firstly, why are you with a 23 year old? You're 13 years old...Isn't that illegal?

Why the hell would you have a kid? You can't support it.

What if the guy decides to dump you? What're you gonna do? Single mother...

It doesn't matter if you're mature enough, you can't support it!

You're only 13 for fucks sake...

This is just wrong on so many levels.

Whatever, if you want to ruin your life, go ahead.

 

[Rebacur]

Firstly, why are you with a 23 year old? You're 13 years old...Isn't that illegal?

Why the hell would you have a kid? You can't support it.

What if the guy decides to dump you? What're you gonna do? Single mother...

It doesn't matter if you're mature enough, you can't support it!

You're only 13 for fucks sake...

This is just wrong on so many levels.

Us two are in love, and I don't think your in the right position to fully get how we feel. Our families try to keep the whole thing low profile so the baby will have a dad as well.

I'm sick of people saying this and that when God has no word against it. People have become arrogance since the law of our world and started to treat a judge like our Lord.

 

[ProxyAmenRa]

All what I've said is real, and I think it's pretty silly for you to say it's a joke when this thread is awaiting serious replies

This is an INTP forum.

Well for one thing, your boyfriend is committing a crime. In all circumstances he should go to jail for his immaturity. I believe it is called Statutory rape. Don't worry, this thread would have flagged any bots out there searching for this sort of thing.

In reality you are not being mature because a person who is would understand that society in general looks down upon your behavior and has legislated against it. When your in a society you must adhere to the social and cultural rituals. If you do not like it, you can leave. Well, you can't, your not at the age of consent.

I am not one to side with authority but this time I have to agree with the social norm.

 

[Sparrow]

Perhaps it's legal in her society...

 

[Rebacur]

This is an INTP forum.

Well for one thing, your boyfriend is committing a crime. In all circumstances he should go to jail for his immaturity. I believe it is called Statutory rape. Don't worry, this thread would have flagged any bots out there searching for this sort of thing.

In reality you are not being mature because a person who is would understand that society in general looks down upon your behavior and has legislated against it. When your in a society you must adhere to the social and cultural rituals. If you do not like it, you can leave. Well, you can't, your not at the age of consent.

I am not one to side with authority but this time I have to agree with the social norm.

I respect what you say and all, I really do; however I have my own laws when considering my own family. Society shouldn't demand this stuff of me when I'm goddamn beyond the reasons.

 

[RobertJ]

9/11 was an inside job.

 

[Sparrow]

I respect what you say and all, I really do; however I have my own laws when considering my own family. Society shouldn't demand this stuff of me when I'm goddamn beyond the reasons.

Is this legal where you live?

 

[Rebacur]

Is this legal where you live?

This law talk doesn't matter because my family obviously averts it

 

[Latro]

Us two are in love, and I don't think your in the right position to fully get how we feel. Our families try to keep the whole thing low profile so the baby will have a dad as well.

I'm sick of people saying this and that when God has no word against it. People have become arrogance since the law of our world and started to treat a judge like our Lord.

1. You're a troll. A successful one, unfortunately.
2. To anyone who doesn't actually think you're a troll, how are you in a position to even truly know what romantic love is? How many relationships could you possibly have been in to even be able to comprehend it as a concept much less achieve it?

This law talk doesn't matter because my family obviously averts it

LOL. "Mommy says I can break the law because I'm special."

 

[Sparrow]

1. You're a troll. A successful one, unfortunately.
2. To anyone who doesn't actually think you're a troll, how are you in a position to even truly know what romantic love is? How many relationships could you possibly have been in to even be able to comprehend it as a concept much less achieve it?

She just wants attention. This is bs.

 

[Sparrow]

This law talk doesn't matter because my family obviously averts it

You have a messed up family.

 

[Rebacur]

What's wrong with you guys, you're making me sad. I would bring this stuff to friends, however they'd be like you but far badder. I was looking for some opinions--even support-and not untrue accusations.

I've had 4 relationships--far more than most my age--and think I can judge the concept pretty well.

 

[Dormouse]

While you may believe you are at the apex of maturity, I assure you that your transformation into an adult is not complete. Do you really want to be raising a child during one of the most turbulent phases of your life? Do you plan on having a career, or will you drop out of school to raise this child?

It's unfair to expect your parents to shoulder any of the burden. And I'm not sure I would count on your boyfriend, as impregnating you in the first case would be considered extremely irresponsible by most.

Admittedly I don't know the circumstances, and this may seem judgemental, but consider it preparation for the responses that will be elicited if you do keep this child.

 

[Sparrow]

What's wrong with you guys, you're making me sad. I would bring this stuff to friends, however they'd be like you but far badder. I was looking for some opinions--even support-and not untrue accusations.

I've had 4 relationships--far more than most my age--and think I can judge the concept pretty well.

Did you love the other 3 guys as well?

 

[Rebacur]

My boyfriend--INTP like you people--is a police officer and knows how to pretty much get around the law. He does work for my dad like this and his a genious at it. He'll look after me and my baby well, thank you very much.