Sometimes people just don't get it.
Sometimes the aim of the producers is to make people feel like it's there but they just don't get it.
Movie "Scarecrow" (1973) with Dustin Hoffman and Gene Hackman: I sat there wondering why I was watching this movie, about two different guys, one good and naive and the other cynical and bad, who go to prison and become comrades. The whole movie. IN the final scene, I got it: It wasn't a typical movie, it was about characters and how they change. I was delighted, I never saw it coming and when it did come, it was a huge epiphany, locking together so many other elements of what I'd been seeing on the screen that the impact was worth waiting for. But I had a friend who watched it and never got it. (Neither did most people. It was a bust, financially.)
Some producers of art want to leave you with a similar effect, but can't really pull the trigger to make the gun go off for you, due to their own ineptness. Or their references are so "inside" their own head or own group that they don't mean squat to anyone else. Or they are spoofers. We had a mean-spirited joke in my small insider group during high school and college in which a joke without a punch line was told. The insiders laughed hilariously, the game being to see which outsiders would overcome their reason and laugh with us to make it seem like they "got it." They became the joke.
The best non-ending I've seen in awhile was with the HBO series "The Sopranos." The final show is just a tension-packed subtle referencing of what the life of now-king-boss Tony Soprano will be, an endless immersion in justified paranoia in which he never knows if the man going into the restroom at the innocent restaurant he's patronizing with his family is going to come out with a gun, whether his daugher is late because she still can't parallel park or she's been made away with by his enemies, whether his most trusted lieutenant will ever come out of a coma, on and on. A lot of people wanted resolution, but the point of the ending was that for this man, in his situation, what he has finally achieved is a life where resolution is never achieved.
As usual, no conclusions, only observations.
