SEX

[echoplex]

I hear it's easy for 40 year old virgins though. Your co-workers will even start helping you out and everything.

But seriously though, I agree. There is a stigma attached to it and sadly, many women can't let go of that stigma even when they really like a virgin guy.

 

[Liontiger]

1. I dunno, I’ve never done it XD. Although, if I had realized I was gay at a younger age, I probably would have done it by now. When it does happen though, I have a feeling I won’t be able to get enough of it.

2. Confidence, aggression, blatant come-ons, intelligence, free-spirits, physical attractiveness, femininity

3. Stupidity

4. All kinds

5. With any luck, very very soon. It is sooooo happening.

6. Lots of foreplay, talking

7. Probably lots of snuggling, possibly some inappropriate comments XD

8. It depends on the situation. It doesn’t mean the same thing every time.

9. Yeah, I’m starting to realize that I am/have the potential to be. But I would NEVER cheat on someone or violate the boundaries we set. I don’t mind sexual behavior outside of a relationship as long as it is discussed and agreed upon.

10. Oh I’m very up front about all of it, and I’d do just about everything. I just haven’t gotten to try it yet.

 

[quitejaded]

This forum really, really bewilders me! :O

1. How often? I engage in sexual activities uhm... depending on my situations, three to 5 times a week to once a month.

2. Biggest turn-ons? Nice breasts. Nice ass. Nice legs. Basically, a tight little body for females. For both sexes, a cute smile and personality. A cute smile is a definite huge turn on when it comes to males.

3. Biggest tun-offs? Girls with big, round, squishy bellies. Girls who would rather think basely than complex-ly. Girls with fake smiles. Guys who are arrogant, fucktards, irrational, or talk too much.

4. What kind? Uhm... human kind?

5. What age did you lose your virginity? Technically, I am still one. But, I got my first kiss at 18 on valentine's day. The rest is history. A fast developing one, as well. Haha!

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies? I would fantasize a lot. I would masturbate without using my hands at the age of 6 when I discovered that crunches gave me a "tingley" feeling. Learned how to use my abs. I'd feel very lonely. Every day I was yearning just to be touched by some one somehow.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies? I had a tendency to put myself in dangerous situations because I was horny (like meeting the IB guy from the internet I mentioned in another thread). I still have a tendency of sending out sexual signals by accident. Or is it? Hmm! And I started doing that puppy-dog face with boys. I don't think I do it anymore (maybe I don't even realize).

8. What does it mean to you? I'm really coming into my own. I'm becoming a rising human being.

9. Are you promiscuous? Ah... I try not to be, but I am always approached and sometimes I am attracted to them. I want to get to know them inside and out, if you catch my drift. I want to know every facet of their being.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it? I want a girl all to myself.

 

[Liontiger]

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies? I had a tendency to put myself in dangerous situations because I was horny (like meeting the IB guy from the internet I mentioned in another thread). I still have a tendency of sending out sexual signals by accident. Or is it? Hmm! And I started doing that puppy-dog face with boys. I don't think I do it anymore (maybe I don't even realize).

I feel you on accidentally sending out sexual signals. Sometimes people will be like, "Why are you giving me the seductive face?" when I'm really not (or at least I don't think I am) XD I also make people uncomfortable with my sexually open comments ^^

And your answer to number 10: story of my life.

 

[Lobstrich]

1. How often?
I'm known to stand back and stare a bit, then rub my hands on her body before getting to work. I'd say it's about once a week at the moment. This should change in the future as the newness factor wears off.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
Turning the key in the ignition, body kits, pumping the clutch, body kits, backhanding the stickshift, body kits, yanking the parking brake, body kits

3. Biggest tun-offs?
Euro cars, junkers, cars with excessively high mileage, nasty looking engine bays, spinner rims

4. What kind?
Japanese rice burner, American muscle, Euro exotic, in that order.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
I owned my first car at 24.

6. Pre-sex behaviours
Lusting after a sports car, hanging around Integra owners, gawking at Hondas.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendencies?
Hot waxing, engine revving

8. What does it mean to you?
She's a beatiful woman

9. Are you promiscuous?
I still lust after other cars

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
Drifting

Haha.. I laughed so hard.. First i was like "stand back, rub you hands.. Aha, aha. once a week.. Okay. Newness factor? Hmm"
Then I saw the ignition and body kits. And thought you were calling your wiener, the key etc. Untill I got "yanking the parking break" LOL.

 

[Niavmai]

1. How often?
Honestly, whenever I feel like it. 6-7 times a week if I'm in the mood.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
Red heads, asphyxiation,

3. Biggest tun-offs?
Fake noises.

4. What kind?
wat

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
8, though I'd actually place it around 12-13, because I actually had an idea of what I was doing then.

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
Erection. Usually. ..Sometimes?

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
Fall asleep immediately. :P But actually, I usually turn on soft-jazz+rainymood.com, and enjoy pillow talk.

8. What does it mean to you?
I feel that sex only means anything other than pleasure if it's with someone who you feel an emotional connection with, and not just a physical attraction. In the first case, I find it's a very good method of bonding, and generally helps bring myself closer to my partner.

9. Are you promiscuous?
Yes.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
I'm not much of a fetish guy. I'm into some rougher stuff like light bondage, but most girls I'm with are into weirder stuff than me anyways. So I'd have to think about that really hard before I could give an actual response.

 

[ashitaria]

I'm asexual.

'Nuff said.

 

[Alice?]

Uh... It must be springtime or something. How many threads about sex have surfaced in the past week or so? haha.

 

[s0nystyle]

this thread was posted in february of last year >.> some asshat must've necro'ed it

 

[asmit127]

I'm thankful to the "asshat" - this thread is interesting. Most of the views expressed a year ago sound alot like mine, lately they have not. Maybe it's just the average age of members going down, and sex is just a "cool" topic (INTP's in school must struggle to be themselves and are influenced by groupthink). I'm rambling so will stop

 

[Audio]

1. How often?

If im in a relationship, at least 2 times a day. If it is less then once a day and we spend the day together I will express concerns. If im not in a relationship, well that depends on a lot of variables.

2. Biggest turn-ons?

Curves, someone who isn't a fool.

3. Biggest turn-offs?

bad skin

4. What kind? (of sex?)

Open to anything, however if it's up to me the pace starts out slow and ends at a faster pace.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?

18

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?

Getting uncomfortable, but i'll continue. Well starts out with a kiss, that leads to my hands on her hips (hopefully she has them) Feel them up, kiss the neck, ears, it's never really the same thing. Eventually I undress them, (and at this point i honestly expect my partner to make an attempt to take my clothes off, losen my belt, raise my shirt, anything to show you're interested. Although, it never brings me down if she doesn't and i'd never express my expectations to someone i love, because then it isn't love, I also think this sort of thinking makes INTPs great in bed, once their comfortable)

ExTx seem to make sex about themselfs and IxTx seem to make it about the other person, which is very interesting to think about. I think introverts in general are better at sex then extraverts, but that's probably a weak theory as i lack some necesary experience to make proper judgement.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?

sleep, piss, drink? I was listening to the radio (kroq,love line) and Dr.Drew said that men have hormones that make them want to get up and do something after sex, and it's very true. After sex i have this urge to get up and walk around for no aparent reason, usualy thirsty, I usualy get up and get bottled water. Although, I understand my partners needs and i usualy stay in bed with them, because i love them, but if she gets out of bed or puts her clothes on, I usually get up and do something, unless im tired and it's late. I also tend to look in a mirror when im naked and im pretty comfortable naked, something i would of never thought to be true when i was a virgin, and sex has made me more comfortable with my body in general.

8. What does it mean to you?

A test run , or love. I'd never have sex more then once if i wasn't interested in a relationship, however i stay open minded and that is to be taken light hearted.

9. Are you promiscuous?

no, being social is hard enough, getting a girl in bed that meets my expectations is a task of monsterous proportions, and believe me my expectations can be pretty low, but you'd have to be particularly attractive for me to attempt to make any sort of effort(it's a big effort because it's not natural or easy for me), and my awkward self can fuck things up in no time, it's very fragile, and any mistake i make never leaves my mind, and I have trouble focusing on something else, everything i say feels boring because i have a sincere interest in things most people consider boring, i have trouble connecting with people who are Sensors and very very rarely do i meet intuition types, let a lone attractive ones. If the person isn't making me use my brain, my thoughts turn negative very fast, my brain is constantly going. Booze doesn't even stop it.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?

On the topic of sex? nothing comes to mind. Don't see any reason not to ask(politely), unless i had some weird fantasy like feces or someone licking my ass, but i don't.

 

[jachian]

1. How often?

Never had it. But if I did to would be

2. Biggest turn-ons?

Smarts and athletic girl

3. Biggest tun-offs?

dont know

4. What kind?

The conventional kind....... But i would do anything she wants..... Almost anything.......

5. What age did you lose your virginity?

Already answered that

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?

sorry.............

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?

sorry.................

8. What does it mean to you?

A lot.......

9. Are you promiscuous?

Hell no !!

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?

Have no idea.

 

[clairdelune]

I don't think it is usual for an INTP to be so perverted. I hope this doesn't seem too distasteful.

1. How often?
Once or twice a week with plenty of flirting/light play in between.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
BDSM. Being pinned down, smothered, choked, bound, confined, teased, controlled. Costumes, chocolate syrup, ass play, rope, mild breast torture, punishment. Anything that gets me into "subspace".

3. Biggest tun-offs?
B.O., bad breath. Disinterested or distracted partner.

4. What kind?
Kinky or vanilla. Mixed positions. Variety is the spice of life.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
I was 17. I wish I'd waited a bit longer.

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
General flirtation. Whispered suggestions, playful and passionate kisses, running hands lightly along bare skin. Sending body language signals that draw attention to my breasts, hips, ass. Smiling a lot. Sometimes act bratty to get punished.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
Aftercare. Cuddles, talking, light refreshments. If it was rough play, we discuss things that worked well and what could be improved.

8. What does it mean to you?
In the context of a relationship, it's an opportunity to bond intimately. Sex is a chance to explore creativity and to focus on sensations and emotions. It's one of the few situations where I feel comfortable being emotionally vulnerable. Outside of a relationship, it's fulfillment of a basic need. Sex is fun.

9. Are you promiscuous?
No. I have not been with many people, but I have had sex with a few close friends and romantic partners.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
I'm pretty open about my desires. I'm curious about sex in public, wax play, anal sex, topping (being in control of a scene), age play, cages.

 

[Niavmai]

3. Biggest tun-offs?
B.O., bad breath. Disinterested or distracted partner.

A friend of mine's biggest turn on is being purposely ignored. Eg. her partner will tie her up, and then leave her alone there while going off to do whatever else he feels like for a few minutes.

 

[YoullNeverGuess]

Wow, my breed are a bunch of losers. Grow some and bump uglies.

 

[I'mProbablyanINTP]

Wow, my breed are a bunch of losers. Grow some and bump uglies.

Seriously. I can thank peer-pressure for getting me laid at 16 and from there I've had a very high sex drive. I'll have sex as often as I can when it's available, when it's no longer available I think about sex a lot. I'm flirting pretty much all the time and have friends with benefits at all times, girlfriends cause dilemmas I don't crave and as far as I can tell the only difference between a girlfriend and good fuckbuddy is there's no promise of monogomy. That suits me well cause I don't feel like promising that to someone.

The only(?) downside of having multiple partners is your risk for STI's increases - so make sure you use condoms and get blood tests regularly and you can enjoy the sexy times for as long as you want.

 

[Soledad]

I am an INTP and I am quite interested in sex. I imagine a lot of how it would be making love to my (imaginary/future) partner or someone that I know who likes me, too, or fantasizing about random people like movie stars, etc. However, being adult and legal as I am, I haven't been able to give up the good for some reasons. First of all, I can be really picky when choosing a partner and some health issue tells me to wait for the right one at the right time.

1. How often? If masturbation is considered a form of having sex, I masturbate very often (more than a couple of times per week - every day). However, I can go for at least a week without masturbating.

2. Biggest turn-ons? Good communication (can be in silence), a few mutual interests, intimacy.

3. Biggest tun-offs? Being aggressive too early.

4. What kind? One on one.

5. What age did you lose your virginity? I haven't lost it yet, and it's not a shame.

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies? A lot of touching and snogging.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies? Drifting in bliss, sleep.

8. What does it mean to you? Physical expression of affection/desire/lust/hormonal release.

9. Are you promiscuous? I think if I'm not in love or attached I tend to have fun once in a while.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it? Outdoor sex.

I hope that helps. Can you see how much of an INTP I am?

 

[nexion]

I can't answer any of these questions. Neither have I had, nor have I cared to have sex. It's just...dumb.

Unless you know for sure that your significant other is yours permanently. And I've met a lot of assholes who I didn't even want to speak to the next day, so...

btw stds? no thx.

God, this is truth. I suppose sometimes I want to have sex, but I know I never will anyway, so whatever.

I quite frequently refer to myself as asexual. I don't have much of a drive to have sex. That would take time away from all my other important thing; knowledge, thinking, God... whatever dude. I'm not going to answer any of the OPs questions because they are all completely irrelevant to me.

 

[HumidDesert]

Pa sta da ti kazem?? Ako neces da odgovoris...onda neogovoraj.

Stvar je u tome,sto vecina ovde nece hteti da deli licne stvari,sta da ti kazem...takvi smo.

Razumijete li vi Hrvatski??!!! or is that Serbian or Bosnian?

 

[Vatroslav]

I like to see there are more rational people in this world, really... and no, I'm not going to answer those questions. Sex is really not a priority in my life...

 

[Reptillian]

1. How often?
I masturbate 3 times a day for a long while. Never had any real form of sexual activity for the sake of doing it.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
Strong, beautiful, and intelligent girl a slight older than me although I do have a lot of asexual feelings. It just that I'm rarely attracted to females or males. It hard to find one of those.

3. Biggest turn-offs?
To be honest, seeing that I can't relate to her in any form.

4. What kind?
Answered

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
I lost virginity when I had sex with myself at a young age.

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
When I feel the urges.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
Answered

8. What does it mean to you?
I just love having sex with myself.

9. Are you promiscuous?
I'm guessing no.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
Haven't thought of any.

PS:I know masturbation isn't defined as sex, but you do get the point.

 

[basickatie]

1. How often?
all the time.
2. Biggest turn-ons?
a genuine attraction.(to me)lol
3. Biggest tun-offs?
selfishness.
4. What kind?
passionate!!hard and real.
5. What age did you lose your virginity?
13
6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
excitement.
7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
cuddling.
8. What does it mean to you?
it means i did it for my husband.lol
9. Are you promiscuous?
i wouldn't say...
10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
bondage???? haha, but seriously.

 

[speiss]

3. Biggest tun-offs?

BDSm

Boo.

I don't think it is usual for an INTP to be so perverted. I hope this doesn't seem too distasteful.

1. How often?
Once or twice a week with plenty of flirting/light play in between.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
BDSM. Being pinned down, smothered, choked, bound, confined, teased, controlled. Costumes, chocolate syrup, ass play, rope, mild breast torture, punishment. Anything that gets me into "subspace".

3. Biggest tun-offs?
B.O., bad breath. Disinterested or distracted partner.

4. What kind?
Kinky or vanilla. Mixed positions. Variety is the spice of life.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
I was 17. I wish I'd waited a bit longer.

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
General flirtation. Whispered suggestions, playful and passionate kisses, running hands lightly along bare skin. Sending body language signals that draw attention to my breasts, hips, ass. Smiling a lot. Sometimes act bratty to get punished.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
Aftercare. Cuddles, talking, light refreshments. If it was rough play, we discuss things that worked well and what could be improved.

8. What does it mean to you?
In the context of a relationship, it's an opportunity to bond intimately. Sex is a chance to explore creativity and to focus on sensations and emotions. It's one of the few situations where I feel comfortable being emotionally vulnerable. Outside of a relationship, it's fulfillment of a basic need. Sex is fun.

9. Are you promiscuous?
No. I have not been with many people, but I have had sex with a few close friends and romantic partners.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
I'm pretty open about my desires. I'm curious about sex in public, wax play, anal sex, topping (being in control of a scene), age play, cages.

Can I be you when I grow up?

I'm a virgin, but then again, if you were a young girl my age, not being a virgin would be kind of gross. Of course, it entirely depends on what your definition of "sex" is.

In accordance to the questions regarding "turn ons" and "turn offs," I like a boy to be thin, and of normal height, being only 5 feet tall myself; any taller than 5 9, and I'd feel like I was screwing a giant. Then again, my last boyfriend was 6 1, and he wasn't all that bad at all. But he was skinny as a rake and cute as a button, and the boy I've been thinking about for the longest time is only 5 5, and he is plenty tall.. he isn't very physically attractive either, but it's so completely irrelevant that I don't even think about it. But he's very thin, and I don't know, I like that in a boy ;D

Ever since I was in kindergarten, I knew I had had a very serious liking toward restrain. I finally discovered what the hell the proper term was when I was older and able to finally realize it officially, but I don't know; I like being dominated. I constantly told my ex to be fiercer, to be stronger, to overpower me. But he was an odd duck, and he just didn't get it. Alas, he was also intellectually inferior, and it was something I couldn't tolerate no matter how much I tried. A nice fellow, though.

I like to be relaxed, to have fun, to live a little. If I'm already intimate with a guy, too many stupid things erupting from his mouth can turn me off, or being insecure. Sometimes insecurity can be cute, but other times you just want them to shut the fuck up.

I know I should wait to have sex, yet sometimes I'm so eager; although, my ex was my first (official) boyfriend, and I just wasn't really attracted to him. I mean, he was gorgeous, and I found him to be very conventionally attractive, but that was it. For the month and a half we were together, every conversation we held I couldn't wait to end. He was almost unbearably annoying because he couldn't understand anything I said, and everything he wrote was near illegible. He was the nicest kid though.. But, when I wasn't in a relationship and I was thinking about this other kid who wasn't very attractive, man, I had so many fantasies that I couldn't pay attention in class. Just the thought of kissing him makes me break out into squeals -- of course, kissing anybody else wouldn't mean much to me.

Sexual attraction and sex itself are interesting topics, and some people, more than others, are comfortable talking about it. I'm not experienced enough to actually share my frequency or my pre and post behaviors, which confuses me as to how virgins on here are answering those questions..

 

[420MuNkEy]

1. How often?
Been at least a couple years now...

2. Biggest turn-ons?
I've never really been able to pin much of anything down, it varies too much

3. Biggest tun-offs?
Women with annoying voices and natural blondes

4. What kind?
I don't understand the question.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
14

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendancies?
My "tendencies" depend on how the situation presents itself.

7. Post sex behaviours/tendancies?
Usually just lay there for a while (sometimes watching TV)

8. What does it mean to you?
Sex to me is nothing more than pleasure. If you can get yourself off just as easily (if not easier) than another person, I don't understand the point of being in a relationship exclusively for sex. It might have something to do with the pleasure people others seem to get (absent in me) of a sexual conquest.

9. Are you promiscuous?
If this asking about fidelity in a relationship: No. If this is asking about not being too choosy: Yes.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
I've always thought a glory hole would be fun to try, but always been too afraid there would be a serial murder on the other side waiting with an axe




I'm kind of surprised at the ratio of virgins here (not trying to sound pompous). I always just kind of assumed that at least one solid opportunity arose for just about everyone by the age of 20, but I guess I may have been luckier than I previously thought to be presented with an opportunity with someone attractive, interested, and willing who didn't mind my social ineptitude/INTPness (Pun intended).

 

[Cavallier]

I'm kind of surprised at the ratio of virgins here (not trying to sound pompous). I always just kind of assumed that at least one solid opportunity arose for just about everyone by the age of 20, but I guess I may have been luckier than I previously thought to be presented with an opportunity with someone attractive, interested, and willing who didn't mind my social ineptitude/INTPness (Pun intended).

I'm not terribly surprised being as the majority of people on here aren't 20 yet but I am a little surprised that other than a few exceptions I escaped my virginity relatively young. At 18 I thought I had waited quite a while. Then again there is a lot of emphasis on sex at that age for many. Most teens would have you believe that everybody excepting themselves is having sex everyday all day long.

Also, I suspect that most (like myself) simply were not interested in their peers sexually until after high school. If they were interested sexually they couldn't bring themselves to be interested intellectually and that is something that goes hand in hand for many INTPs. I was uninterested in anybody under 20 when in high school.

Or was it just me that despised my age group when in high school?

 

[Vatroslav]

I don't see a problem with virginity, really... does having sex made anyone more intelligent, competitive, a better person? Neither having sex all the time or staying a virgin till early thirties has nothing pompous about it. It is just a state that someone chose... or didn't, due to lack of social skills. But really... nothing pompous about it. Should we feel inferior because we haven't had sex? Why so? Is there any rational reason to?

Whoever feels inferior because of a such stupid reason is actually enchained by the mainstream mentality. Why should it mean anything to anyone? It's a very private thing, not for public... you had sex? Okay... you haven't had? Okay... neither really interests me at all...

What is so... pompous (?!) ... about having sex before twenties?

 

[420MuNkEy]

What is so... pompous (?!) ... about having sex before twenties?

I was saying that my comment was not intended to be boastful or belittle anyone. I put that there to avoid confusion and posts like yours.

 

[Vatroslav]

I was saying that my comment was not intended to be boastful or belittle anyone.

Nah, that's okay... It actually was not a personal post... I was just asking a general question, I used the word 'pompous' because I caught it with my eyes... and that got me thinking about it...

Still the question remains... why is sex on its imaginary pedestal these days? Isn't it simply overrated? Are there not much more productive activities for personal development?

 

[420MuNkEy]

Nah, that's okay... It actually was not a personal post... I was just asking a general question, I used the word 'pompous' because I caught it with my eyes... and that got me thinking about it...

Still the question remains... why is sex on its imaginary pedestal these days? Isn't it simply overrated? Are there not much more productive activities for personal development?

Ah, that happens to me too. I find myself having crazy thoughts going through my head having not realized I unconsciously read something that would lead me to that though.

But I think it has something to do with a primal sexual conquest feeling people get (I don't know, I've never had that but I've heard about it). Almost like the thrill people get out of watching sports (I'm not sure, but I don't watching sports is popular amongst INTP's). But on an evolutionary basis, no, there really isn't more productive activities than reproduction.

 

[Vatroslav]

True, on evolutionary basis there isn't. But humanity obviously transcended the whole "evolutionary basis" thing. There is much ways to stop women from getting pregnant... and there is of course sex between people of the same gender, is there not?

What is sex, after all? Could we define sex? Is there an absolute definition of sex?

 

[Vatroslav]

Today sex is something so priceless that it doesn't even have a proper definition...

 

[nexion]

Today sex is something so priceless that it doesn't even have a proper definition...

Sex is a biological function, the way I see it. Nothing more, nothing less. Some people attribute it to love, but love is just a biological function too.

 

[WeAreTheStrange]

Don't worry, I don't bite

Correction:

I don't bite. Unless you happen to be Melkor.

*NOM NOM NOM*

And now Melkor is a uniped.

What if I specifically ask to be bitten?

Good post.
I find this part to be especially true for me, because when I'm trying to find out how I feel about a girl I will always try to explore her psychologically. I'll get the ball rolling on a conversation or debate and I will get more intense in the discussion... then she'll eventually say something like, "this is depressing me".
Then my interest has gone out the window.

So true. So frustrating.

*sigh

 

[Gather_Wanderer]

1. How often?
ahh....it's sporadic. sometimes i feel like i wouldn't do it until my body told me it was absolutely necessary, other times i feel i could sleep with every woman i found immediately attractive.

2. Biggest turn-ons?
pretty face, good proportions (boob to butt ratio), if you have the first two and somehow we end up in a conversation that lasts more than 10 minutes or so, you earn an incredible amount of "points" in the game to win me over.

3. Biggest tun-offs?
not pretty face, bad proportions, maybe SJ types....

4. What kind?
....the good kind? please elaborate
oh wait the entire thing is about sex. ok, so the kind where i end up happy and tired at the end.

5. What age did you lose your virginity?
high school age

6. Pre-sex behaviours/tendencies?
a super-ogling of woman parts, followed by staring into eyes

7. Post sex behaviours/tendencies?
if i like them, much conversing. if i don't...a vacant spot where i was laying. not often does the latter happen though; sexual attraction is very difficult if i don't like or understand them on the inside.

8. What does it mean to you?
without a significant other, a satisfying of urges. with one? an even greater satisfying of urges....

9. Are you promiscuous?
a little bit, though i don't have (feel the need) to be.

10. Something you've always wanted to try...but never had the balls to be up-front about it?
doesn't exist. i would ask for anything if it was a possibility and desire.

 

[420MuNkEy]

True, on evolutionary basis there isn't. But humanity obviously transcended the whole "evolutionary basis" thing. There is much ways to stop women from getting pregnant... and there is of course sex between people of the same gender, is there not?

We're still animals and do not transcend our bestial behavior. It's not the act of conception that seems to cause this primal thrill, it's simply the completion of the act. Just like people get a thrill from hunting rather than eating the resulting meat.