I've Overcome Existential Despair
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- Sep 9, 2012
You and Dove are not the same person.I have a severe panic disorder. And I have experienced utmost similar situations (perhaps even more extreme) as presented by Dove.
Moral position? What leap of logic brings ethics into this discussion?Duxwing, You are not in any moral position to tell anybody that understanding is useless.
Thus far, you haven't understood my point or applied logic to yours. I levy the same unto you.You should be quiet.
So somehow your sufferings make you an expert on a person and subject of which we have little knowledge? And apparently you do think that you know, for unlike me, you haven't asked her a single question: you've leapt straight to judgment.And let those of us who know our people reach out and help them out of their condition.
And isn't that exactly the sort of immature J that you described another person as? You are hoist by your own petard.
No. I refuse, and I will continue to discuss this with you until you either see the light of day, convince me, leave, or have a meltdown.But you should keep your mouth shut.
Lack of understanding? Even if you're right, then you are an utter hypocrite: When did I state any of this? You're arguing against a strawman.Wherever there is a lack of understanding as much hell as you has raised in this thread. No! I will not allow anyone nor you Duxwing, to condemn people as being invalid, when you have stated our condition as an incapability of understanding.
I stated that understanding will not help her on a timescale relevant to her mental health and then advised her to leave the house. From context, you should have reasoned that understanding her in-laws implied to staying in the house while doing so. Understanding them later is fine, but staying in that house while trying to is needlessly dangerous, like sitting in a burning building while trying to invent the fire extinguisher.
You perceive that I have shown stupidity because you haven't actually understood my point, which does not pertain to any sort of moral condemnation of her nor dismissal of understanding in general. You have argued against a strawman with unbelievable self-righteousness and arrogance, too intellectually lazy and too eager to dish out 'justice' on a sore point of yours to ask whether I meant any of what you've asserted. Get out of your Ni la-la land for a moment and use your Ti and Se to check your logic.You have shown such stupidity that you should be quiet, when it comes to moral condemnation.
P.S. Having a bad day/week/month? As surprised as I am by your outburst, there's no sense in badgering someone for something done in the heat of the moment.