Originally Posted by Brontosaurie
preoccupied, bordering on fearful-avoidant
i call bullshit (<---- yes very bold)
I wouldn't call bullshit on the idea that people sometimes exhibit these sets of traits, but I would definitely question that these are static traits(like MBTI type) rather than dynamic and based on interpersonal factors.
I would also question that people are oriented the same across different relationships of attachment, including family vs friends, and even platonic relationships can be close/intimate.
Personally I do better with platonic relationships when it comes to this idea of attachment styles, while for sexual/romatic relationships I'm pretty sure I would be considered somewhere on the border of fearful-avoidant and dismissive.