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Recent content by Nick85

  1. Boundaries vs Logic

    I think I prefer face to face for that kind of stuff. With text/email I have no idea what the emotion is behind what you said, I don't even get the tone of your voice. For something sensitive like that, I'd be afraid to misinterpret what you said and bothered at not knowing your expression when...
  2. Ask an ESFJ

    I've heard that from an ESFJ on another forum too. And it seems to have validity from personal experience too. I'm definitely like that too, I don't tire that much from that kind of small group interaction but I never crave large group interactions, more like tolerate them. Does anything from...
  3. Ask an ESFJ

    When you go for the jugular, is that more like complaining - why are you so cold? you're always ignoring me :( - or more like explosive accusations? What would an INTP being "emotionless" be like to you? Is it about actions? Words? Body language? Are some emotions lacking more than others...
  4. Great typology test

    I got ENTP. I think I'm INTP but I've gotten ENTP a couple times on other tests. My results across all the tests I've taken are something like 40% INTP 20% INTJ 15% INFP 10% ENTP 5% ENTJ 5% ISTP 5% ISTJ But out of those I think only INTP and ENTP are plausible, and I'm still pretty...
  5. Going to therapy?

    I've been to 2 therapists. 1st one I liked. I basically just unloaded everything that was on my mind onto her, and that's basically it. Forcing myself to try to explain things to her made it more clear to me what I had to do, and then I just told her what I should do and "committing" to...
  6. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    He sometimes makes bad jokes on my Facebook page too. I'll make terrible jokes as well, but for the entertainment value of seeing people groan. I'm pretty sure he thinks he's being cool. Maybe that's just a dad thing though. There were a few moments when we were talking about whether I have...
  7. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    I actually think he's INTJ lol... Basically that means that his Fe is just as weak as mine but he doesn't even try to use it. Since I react to Fe, I basically don't react to him on an emotional level unless he's upset, which usually means I just shut down. He mostly goes on and on about his...
  8. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    Well it's not that they're sticking it together despite the problems. It's that there are no apparent problems. My parents will bring up issues between other relatives or issues they themselves have with my grandparents, but they don't seem to have anything to say about problems between those...
  9. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    It's a little tricky... My parents bought me a couple books on procrastination at one point. At that time, I was quite willing to admit it to myself that I had difficulties with procrastination but I was less willing to admit it to them. I did read one of them and found it somewhat useful...
  10. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    For me it's more like I'm not good at it so I don't want to deal with it. But I actually do care what people think about me and will get bothered if I'm under the impression that they think poorly of me (or just ignore me). Since I'm bad at it though, this is definitely something I would see as...
  11. INTP ESFJ Relationship Guide

    The bold does seem like something I might do with my ESFJ friend I'm attracted to in an attempt to win her over, although I can also see myself toning it down after feeling more secure in the relationship. Isn't that kind of normal though, like something all types would do? I'd like to think I'd...
  12. Ask an ESFJ

    ok so I see you've been talking about how you're dealing with the fact that your relationship isn't working out but why wasn't it working out? Just trying to understand the benefits and pitfalls to watch out for in ESFJ-INTP relationships since there's an ESFJ I'm interested in. You said he...
  13. How much would you spend on your rights?

    Use the $2000 to buy a plane ticket to Ecuador and do whatever I can to undermine the government that tried to take my rights away.
  14. What does it take to wake you up

    I've been making myself go to sleep early and wake up early these days to make it to a 6:30am spin class since that's the only time to local rec centre has them most days. I just wake up around 6:15 and leave at 6:20 so that doesn't leave much wriggle room for putting off waking up. I'm not...
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