Pizzabeak
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Both are lead Ni, which is just pure idealism, connected to inferior Se, so they just look at something and "see what's missing", then desire it more. TJ has Fi, which is basically just doing something to prove you can do it, even if you don't even really need to (if they're your friend they can help you not be "lazy", at least). FJ is auxiliary Fe, which is basically annoying either way to INTP, or at least me, because inferior Fe. Not to mention that combined with lead Ni, and not enough Ti, so they want it their way and not yours.
You do need balance. So they can help you relate more to people - if anything. Whether that means they're smarter, or know what's better for you, is up for debate. Aux/tert Ne-Si puts you in a unique place in time. Aux/tert Fe-Ti anchors you to people practicality. It makes you think everyone is an extrovert. Sure, there can be dumb lead T's or dumb INTJs (or you can do the Office joke where you depict ENFP as normal and ENTP as too awkward to be relatable). But what you really have is something too cerebral to understand or be of practical significance in the personality. So if it doesn't make money, it's useless, and Fe tries to peel layers of information back to relate it to people to make them happy. It takes work to integrate ideas and concepts into reality.
You do need balance. So they can help you relate more to people - if anything. Whether that means they're smarter, or know what's better for you, is up for debate. Aux/tert Ne-Si puts you in a unique place in time. Aux/tert Fe-Ti anchors you to people practicality. It makes you think everyone is an extrovert. Sure, there can be dumb lead T's or dumb INTJs (or you can do the Office joke where you depict ENFP as normal and ENTP as too awkward to be relatable). But what you really have is something too cerebral to understand or be of practical significance in the personality. So if it doesn't make money, it's useless, and Fe tries to peel layers of information back to relate it to people to make them happy. It takes work to integrate ideas and concepts into reality.