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coberst
27th-January-2009, 07:37 PM
“Old Age ain’t for Sissies”—Betty Davis

Technology has increased longevity thereby making death even more frightful, expensive, tortuous, and perhaps accumulatively more painful than before. Is this progress?

“Never before in history has it been so hard to fulfill our final earthly task: dying. It used to be that people were "visited" by death. With nothing to fight it, we simply accepted it and grieved. Today, thanks to myriad medications and interventions that have been created to improve our health and prolong our lives, dying has become a difficult and often excruciatingly slow process.” Craig Bowron, Physician

Bowron speaks of a woman who suffers from something that physicians call "the dwindles", which is essential a characteristic of old age in modern times. Three days a week she spends in dialysis so that she can spend the remaining four days of the week recovering; she is miserable seven days a week.

Bowron speaks of another patient who is 91 who lies in his bed helpless with painful swollen arthritic joints after being felled with a stroke.

There are no lifesaving medications in such cases; only life-prolonging pain can be offered.

Bowron informs us that “everyone wants to grow old and die in his or her sleep, but the truth is that most of us will die in pieces. Most will be nibbled to death by piranhas, and the piranhas of senescence are wearing some very dull dentures. It can be a torturously slow process, with an undeniable end, and our instinct shouldn't be to prolong it. If you were to walk by a Tilt-A-Whirl loaded with elderly riders and notice that all of them were dizzy to the point of vomiting, wouldn't your instinct be to turn the ride off? Or at the very least slow it down? Mercy calls for it.”

The good doctor is not speaking about euthanasia or even about the spiraling cost of health care; he is speaking about a sympathetic and rationalized dignity for those who have reached the end of a life worth living.

“In the past, the facade of immortality was claimed by Egyptian kings, egomaniacal monarchs and run-of-the mill psychopaths. But democracy and modern medical advances have made the illusion accessible to everyone. We have to rid ourselves of this distinctly Western notion before our nation's obesity epidemic and the surge of aging baby boomers combine to form a tsunami of infirmity that may well topple our hospital system and wash it out to sea.” Bowron

I think that the good doctor and I agree that there comes a time in life when “the only thing worse than dying is being kept alive”.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/
wp-dyn/content/story/2009/01/09/ST2009010903215.html

Kidege
27th-January-2009, 07:54 PM
It just occurred to me that you might be milking us to write/publish books. You do this at the Central, too. Creepy.

flow
27th-January-2009, 08:11 PM
marijuana + music = happier old age

Dissident
27th-January-2009, 08:12 PM
@Kidege: I dont thinks so, he does this in more than 10 forums and for what Ive seen here he doesnt usually pay much attention to the responses. He said it was some kind of quest to spread knowledge, who knows, maybe its true.

Madoness
27th-January-2009, 08:13 PM
I support euthanasia, that's just the way it is. So people won't suffer for unhealable pain.

flow
27th-January-2009, 08:14 PM
I wonder what his favorite forum is.

Kidege
27th-January-2009, 08:29 PM
He doesnt usually pay much attention to the responses.

Which is the bit that bugs me. How can you "spread" knowledge in a non dialogical way? I for one, would like to know what has Coberst learned from us.

(I remember learning from you, Dissident, when you posted in one of his threads.)